Lately, I’ve been oscillating between chasing and running in my twin flame journey, and it’s left me feeling spiritually drained. I read that this happens and when I run they seem to start to chase but then when I switch back so do they.
One day I’m drawn to pull tarot cards about our connection, the next I’m avoiding anything related to them. My natal chart shows intense Pluto aspects, which might explain this back-and-forth energy. Has anyone else experienced this constant role reversal, and how do you find balance amidst the chaos?
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It’s frustrating when people act like it’s a clear-cut thing. I don’t think anyone is a runner or a chaser it always seems to be changing.
Things never seem to be simple for twin flames, this isn’t any different.
Don’t STRESS too much about the SEPARATION phase. It’s a natural part of the journey, and honestly, it’s been a time of DEEP healing for me.
Regardless of which one you are (or CURRENTLY are), the answer is the same. Some days are difficult, but embracing the lessons will make you STRONGER.
They are on their path too. Things will align and it won’t matter who does what in the short term.
Absolutely. In my experience, the initial intensity of twin flame energy can be overwhelming, but it does settle into an easier rhythm over time.
Sometimes things are more intense or the runner/chaser roles alternate but as my crown and heart chakras opened further, the connection became less turbulent. My aura expanded and intertwined more smoothly with my TFs. Our energy fields learned to move together instead of colliding.
The process felt like fine-tuning a radio - at first there was static and interference, but gradually the signal became crystal clear. Now, I sense a steady, warm glow in my solar plexus when we’re in sync, rather than the ups and downs of emotions from before.
Oh my gosh, you guys!!! ?? The twin flame journey is like drawing The Tower card over and over again!
I always seem to be the chaser except a few times I am able to fully surrender. Usually I use the Tarot to help me understand what is going on so the chasing isn’t too hard.
But every time I start to run he begins to chase…