From the DM’s perspective- please explain to me what you’re thinking and feeling. Why do you run? Why don’t you communicate? Why do you never text/ message back? Why are you so hot and cold? Please explain ??
At the heart of many DM behaviors lies a powerful emotion: fear. But what exactly are they afraid of?
- Fear of vulnerability: Imagine someone seeing through your carefully constructed facade, right to your core. Terrifying, right? That’s what DMs often feel when their DF sees the real them.
- Fear of inadequacy: The thought ‘I’m not good enough’ can be a constant companion, leading DMs to push away the very person who sees their worth.
The Overwhelming Intensity
Divine Masculines often find themselves caught in a whirlwind of emotions they can’t control. This intensity can be:
- Exhilarating
- Terrifying
- Overwhelming
It’s no wonder they sometimes need to step back and catch their breath!
Communication Conundrums
The Silent Treatment: More Than Meets the Eye
When your DM goes radio silent, it’s not always what you think. Here’s what might be happening:
- Processing overload: They’re trying to make sense of the flood of feelings washing over them.
- Self-protection mode: Sometimes, silence is a shield against the vulnerability they’re not ready to face.
Hot and Cold: The Emotional Rollercoaster
The infamous hot and cold behavior often stems from an internal battle. One moment, they’re all in; the next, they’re running for the hills. It’s confusing, it’s frustrating, but it’s also a sign of the deep impact you have on them.
Healing and Growth: The Path Forward
Divine Masculines are on their own journey of self-discovery and healing. Your patience and understanding can be a guiding light on their path. As they work through their fears and traumas, the connection between DM and DF can grow stronger than ever.
Stay strong, keep the faith, and remember: this journey is about growth for both of you!