Are Twin Flames Supposed to Feel This Distant?

I’ve noticed my aura feels muted around my twin flame at the moment. Almost like our energies cancel each other out.

It’s confusing because we used to have fireworks, but instead, I feel oddly neutral. The energy was always intense but today it feels… calm. I’m worried something has gone wrong. I wonder if it’s a sign of deep alignment or if I’m misreading the connection entirely.

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Sounds like you’ve reached a peaceful equilibrium in your connection - enjoy this harmonious phase, it’s a rare gift! ?

Also probably a very good sign that things are going well.

I’ve come to understand these periods of neutrality as moments of deep alignment, where our souls are so in sync that the usual fireworks give way to a profound sense of peace and… oneness.

As if the initial intensity was necessary to grab our attention to how important this was, but true union comes in waves of tranquil harmony that might feel underwhelming at first. Especially compared to how things feel at the start.

Trust in this new phase of your connection, for it may be a sign that you’re evolving beyond the tumultuous early stages into a more mature and balanced twin flame relationship.

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This more peaceful energy could be a sign you’ve both reached a deeper level of connection, where the initial excitement has settled into a steady, harmonious flame. Trust your intuition and the unique rhythm of your journey together.

Hey there! I totally get what you’re feeling - my DM and I went through a similar phase last year.

I know it doesn’t feel like it right now (thus the worry) but that neutral energy can actually be a good sign, like you’re settling into a more balanced connection. For us, it turned out to be a period of quiet growth before another intense phase. Maybe try some meditation to tune into the subtler energies and see what comes up?

"The calm sea reflects the sky more clearly than the stormy waves."

This quote reminds me of my own first separation. When the initial intensity faded, I panicked, but it turned out to be a deeper connection emerging. That neutral feeling might actually be a sign of alignment - your energies harmonizing instead of clashing.

This is what the surrender stage is supposed to feel like. That’s what you WANT.

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It sounds like your energies are harmonizing at a deeper level, moving beyond the initial intensity to a more balanced state. This calm neutrality could be a sign of your root and heart chakras aligning.

The high intense electric stuff is best left behind you because it distracts from actually preparing for reunion.

I’ve experienced similar energy shifts with my twin flame - it often feels like a calm before a period of growth.

Instead of worrying, try leaning into this peaceful time to reflect on your individual journeys and see if any new insights emerge about your connection or personal development.

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I’m not sure, but maybe what you’re feeling is a kind of… settling? My DM and I went through something similar - the intensity faded and I freaked out, thinking we’d lost our connection. But looking back, I think it was just our energies aligning in a deeper, calmer way.

Still, it’s hard to know for sure, and I often think about whether I’m just seeing what I want to see in our relationship.

This is good. When you should worry is when things don’t calm down.

Sounds like you’re entering a more balanced phase with your twin - I’ve experienced that shift from excitement to calm too and it actually deepened our connection in unexpected ways.

The intense emotions come and go, but true alignment feels more like a peaceful certainty.

hey, i’ve totally been there. sometimes the energy with my twin just feels… different. like, not bad, just calm. i think it might be a sign that you’re both growing and evolving together, even if it doesn’t feel as intense right now.

As a DM, I’ve experienced similar shifts in energy with my twin. I might distance from her or she might distance from me. I don’t worry about it, I think it serves us well.

Forced intensity isn’t sustainable long-term.

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“Sometimes it’s calm after the storm” as Katy Perry sings and that’s exactly what this sounds like.

This is a good thing for both of you!

I don’t think it sounds like anything is wrong here. It will swing back the way, so enjoy it while it lasts and make use of this time!

This sounds good to me…

Let your aura relax. It should not need to be on fire the whole time.

Sometimes it really be like that with twin flames - the energy ebbs and flows like the tides. One day it’s fireworks, the next it’s calm waters, but that doesn’t mean the connection is gone, just shifting and evolving as you both grow.

This could be a sign of progress and reunion is closer than you think…

TBH I’m jealous. I wish my TF journey would feel more like this sometimes.