Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking a lot lately… what if we’re not actually meant to end up with our twins? Maybe this whole journey is just about growing as individuals… I can’t help but wonder if all this pain and longing is leading us somewhere else entirely. sometimes i feel like i’d be happier just focusing on myself and letting go of the idea that we’re destined to be together. Anyone else ever feel this way, or am i just trying to find an easy way out?
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Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful.
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Not everyone will be together, but that is our eventual finish line; it might just happen in another lifetime.
However, you are 100% right about what the journey is about. Growing apart means we can grow together, whether we manage it now or another time around.
Focusing on myself and letting go of expectations has brought me closer to my twin in the most unexpected ways. So whether we are supposed to be together or not, that’s how we get there.
Focusing on my own growth and healing - while remaining open to whatever unfolds - has brought me the most peace and fulfillment, whether my twin and I end up together or not.
I feel you. This twin flame journey can be intense at times. Some days I question if we’re all just chasing shadows, you know? Maybe all this pain transforms us in ways we can’t yet see. I move between hope and despair, but deep down, I still believe our souls chose this path for a reason.
We did agree to our soul contract for a reason. Rooting for you 
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Just my two cents, but the real growth kicks in after you’ve truly connected with your twin flame on that more profound level, but I do wonder how many of us in a lifetime get that far.
It’s like suddenly feeling their energy becomes an incredible healing force, pushing you to evolve in ways you never expected. Once that happens, it’s almost like there’s nowhere left to go - you’ve become so in sync that running away would be like trying to escape yourself. It’s a wild experience and not always easy, but that moment of awakening? It’s pretty mind-blowing.
This thread would make for some good journal prompts.
Could your twin’s lack of growth be a mirror for areas where you still need to develop? How does it feel to prioritize your own well-being over the idea of a perfect union?
once, i spent a whole day just letting go of all my expectations and it was surprising how much lighter i felt. it was like my soul was telling me that it’s okay to put my own happiness first for a change.