Does anyone else feel it when their twin flame has sex with someone else? Sometimes, it feels like they’re thinking of me when they do.
It hurts me to think of them with someone else, but if this is what they need to do to be ready… and I think I can feel it because he wants me to feel it but he wouldn’t try to hurt me.
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Someone was asking about this the other day as well, just in case you want to see some of the replies people had there:
Now that we are back together, he admitted to me that he slept with his karmic and would think of me. My face would flash into his head.
There were other times it would feel the same way, but he wasn’t sleeping with someone else. Made me think of the thread of telepathic sex when they weren’t together
The energetic bond between twin flames can be so strong that you may sense various experiences, including intimate ones.
This kind of energetic awareness can be part of the twin flame experience, but it’s important not to let it consume you. Try redirecting your focus to your own journey and personal development.
Thank you for the link, I did realize he was having sex with his girlfriend purposefully to enjoy best of both worlds. He’d wait until the exact times, on the dot, he knew I’d be able to engage with what I thought was only him. Then I found out she was with him on those days. I really couldn’t tell the difference except for a few subtle things. And yes, he KNEW he was engaging with me too. The worst part was he chose to continue without an answer after I wrote him telling him a few times to please tell me if he was still with his girlfriend, and how much it’d hurt me to be put in that situation.
But again, shows the genius of Divine. Giving my entire heart and soul to someone only to find they were just using me/with another has been my greatest fear with anyone. Being forced to experience this exact situation with my TF made me recognize the need for boundaries and to feel right enforcing them for myself. It’s agony, but now I can fight for myself.
Interestingly, it was actually letting it consume me that led to the triggers and healing the fastest. If I fought the urge to engage, I can’t imagine how long it would’ve taken for me to get to this amazing point of healing had I not given my everything to him, completely and totally, in the 5D
I have a theory that, whatever your greatest fears are in relationships, your DM can and will do those exact things (or, it will be orchestrated to look that way by Divine) in order to face the worst pain and heal it in your heart. Like they say, Rock Bottom is where you are forced to rely on the Divine, and the greatest healing is done.
Now that I’ve lived through it, and learned to set firm boundaries for myself to keep my heart safe, the fear doesn’t have that strong hold over me anymore.
Sometimes I FEEL a deep connection when my twin flame is intimate with someone else, like their energy is reaching out to me. It can be painful, but I try to trust that it’s part of our path and growth, even if I don’t fully understand it.
I try to block it out. It hurts too much or can be totally distracting.
Thinking about my twin flame with someone else makes me… icky. I would die just feeling it.
My DM is not having sex with his karmic much anymore, but there was a moment a few weeks ago when they were both away for a long weekend (her birthday), and yeah… I could feel it.
This used to trigger my ego (it probably still does), but I’ve started to find more peace by ignoring it as much as I can.
I don’t know how he does it. I can’t find any sexual interest in anyone else (and I have tried) but if he has something to learn with this karmic then all I can do is work on me and let him learn the lessons he needs.