It’s been three months since we parted ways, and my heart just… hurts.
How do I start the surrender stage when all I can think about is him?
I keep telling myself I’m over it—poof, gone!—but then his face pops into my mind, and bam! I’m a blubbering mess all over again. How do you cope with this rollercoaster of emotions when it feels like a piece of your soul is missing?
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It’s like… walking through fire… but emerging stronger… The pain is real… so intense… but there’s a glimmer of hope… I remember feeling lost… broken… but then… moments of pure connection… It does get easier… in time… The wounds heal… leaving scars that remind us… of the journey… Trust the process… even when it feels impossible… Your soul knows the way…
You’re right, the journey has its ups and downs. I’ve found that even when I think I’ve got it all figured out, another wave of emotions can catch me off guard.
Each time I stumble, I’m getting a bit better at finding my footing again. The lows still come, but they don’t seem to last as long. It’s like my heart is slowly learning to navigate this complex connection.
Sending you strength and understanding as you walk your own path.
Your roots are your own; don’t let them be stunted by another’s season of growth.
It will get easier.
If you follow your inner compass, like a bird instinctively knowing its migration path, you’ll find yourself in full bloom. Self-love will grow like wildflowers after spring rain as you nurture your garden. Soon, you’ll no longer thirst for their presence like a desert yearns for water. Instead, they’ll become like a gentle breeze - welcome but unnecessary for survival.
When you reach this point, it’s as if you’ve climbed to the peak of a mountain. The view from up there changes everything - suddenly, the winding path you took makes sense, and you can see the beauty in every step of the journey.
I feel you, this journey is challenging (and not always the fun kind). It's natural to want to shut down emotionally (I've been there), but try to stay open. (Easier said than done, I know.) Your twin is likely struggling too, even if it's not obvious. (We're all masters at hiding our pain, aren't we?)
Missing them is okay (heck, it’s expected). Trust that you’ll reconnect when the time is right. (The universe has its own schedule, frustrating as that is.) In the meantime, focus on self-love and growth. (It’s cliché, but it really does help.)
Remember, you’re not alone in this. (Sometimes it feels like the loneliest experience, but there’s a whole community out there.) Sending you strength and good vibes. (And a virtual hug, if you want one.)
(P.S. Don’t let anyone tell you how to feel or what to believe. Your journey is uniquely yours.)
I understand the pain you’re feeling, and I’ve been there, too.
Sometimes, contact can make it even harder, blurring the lines between moving on and holding on. While it may not feel like it now, I promise that with time and self-compassion, the intensity of your emotions will gradually ease.
You’ll look back at this in the future and laugh.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a step back and focus on self-care.
If memories of him (let’s be honest… it’s when) keep coming to mind, try redirecting that energy into personal growth or a new hobby if the pain feels unbearable (… or when), remember that this separation is part of your journey, not the end of it.
If you’re struggling to surrender, start small by letting go of one expectation or fear at a time.
TBH, separation from your twin flame is difficult, and it doesn’t really get “easier” - you just learn to handle the ups and downs better,
You can’t just be “over it” in three months—this journey is intense and takes time to process. Focus on self-love and healing your own wounds now, and trust that if it’s meant to be, you’ll come back together when you’re both ready.
Oh honey, I feel you!!!
The separation is tough, but there is no doubt about it. But here’s what helped me: I started focusing on ME instead of obsessing over him. I threw myself into hobbies, self-care, and spending time with friends. Slowly but surely, the pain eased, and I started to feel whole again - even without him by my side!