I know it is a month away, but I am already feeling the dread of being without him for the holidays.
Normally, we would go to the markets, wear the ugliest jumpers we could find and drink too much mulled wine.
This year… I don’t know what I will do.
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Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful.
A snapshot of the stars at the moment of your combined birth times can help us path your journey together: Get Your Twin Flame Birth Chart
Holiday separations from our twin flames test our faith in divine timing. For whatever it is worth, your twin will feel this, too (on some level).
Pain like this is not given to us to make our holiday season worse. It’s a burning reminder that we have work to do. It’s transformative. This is when we learn to find peace within ourselves.
You might find that channeling your love into service to others during the holidays brings unexpected healing. Your twin flame’s physical absence doesn’t diminish your soul connection - it’s helping you discover your own light.
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Christmas sucks when you are alone (especially in a country like mine where Christmas is mostly celebrated by couples, not the usual Western family).
You still have a few weeks, and maybe this pain triggers him too, but without just hoping for that… how about some new holiday traditions just for yourself this year? Like volunteering at a shelter or having a movie marathon with friends? Get some positive vibes this year.
If you want a zoom watch party for Christmas movies I’m in?
And no social media.
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You could do these things by yourself this year (or with friends and family members). You are always energetically linked and that is still celebrating together. Just as long as your focus is on you and progressing you, not just on the fact you miss them.
Remember that separation is temporary, while your soul bond is eternal. Fill yourself with love and light during this season - it benefits you and them.
In the meantime, they are still holding space for you telepathically and the community is here for you.
Can I join? I’ll bring the chocolate.
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I’m about to celebrate our first Christmas together in our new home (hoping the furniture arrives before the tree does… so far, we are sleeping in between cardboard boxes).
This is not to brag, but I WAS THERE LAST YEAR. This is all temporary.
I had exactly the same situation last Christmas. As others have said, you focus on yourself. Make yourself better. The rest will follow.
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The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow.
If your Christmas this year is without them, prepare for the next one. Or maybe even Easter. Maybe honor the memory of your past time together in small ways - maybe wear one of those ugly Christmas sweaters you used to share or raise a glass of mulled wine.
I am already starting to think about this, too. Decorations are going up and it just doesn’t feel like Christmas.
It’s okay not to be okay about it. Just know this won’t last forever.
Sending you strength and love 
But remember, even in the coldest months, new growth is quietly taking root beneath the surface, preparing for spring’s vibrant renewal.
If you are feeling it, they are too. It will get better x
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A twin flame christmas story 
I made a song for TF and her son and sending it to them
We are kind of talking again and she gave me an update on how her son is doing
So I made a song for them
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