I never quite figured that out when I was always trying to be all sunshine and rainbows.
Sometimes the act of Letting Go of the need to FIX the other person can actually GALVANIZE them into Action? Itâs like they SENSE the shift and are Drawn to it.
This fiery emotion illuminated areas where my personal boundaries required reinforcement and my aura needed healing. Embracing this aspect of my root chakra, I allowed its wisdom to guide me toward balance and spiritual growth, aligning my energy centers and strengthening my auric field.
Your journey of self-discovery and setting boundaries with your twin is truly inspiring. It takes immense courage to break free from unhealthy patterns and reclaim your power.
Empty promises or mixed signals can be incredibly draining. By refusing to accept less than you deserve, youâve opened the door to genuine transformation - both for yourself and potentially your twin.
Exactly! (especially with twins who seem to ignore more subtle signals).
I think occasionally letting those dramatic moments play out (when done consciously and with intention) can actually lead to breakthroughs that gentle approaches couldnât achieve. We do need to keep awareness of when weâre using drama as a tool for growth versus when weâre just acting out unconsciously (which, letâs be honest, weâve all done at times!).
Itâs about finding that sweet spot between assertiveness and theatrics (and owning both aspects of ourselves).
Perfectly said.
Btw, want to take a moment to mention here a book that has boosted my understanding and progress tremendously.
âQuantum Consciousness: The Guide to Experiencing Quantum Psychologyâ by Stephen Wolinsky.
Amazing one. Not only does it remind the reader that negative and positive are all one, but it gives the tools to help ourselves BE rather than hanging in constant observer-controller mode that endlessly analyzes feelings to see if they are right or wrong.
Must-have and must-read for everyone who wants to understand really deeply the mechanics of the Twin Flame. For those, who ready, the shift is immediate. After months or years of endless suffer youâll finally feel it.
Hint: While the Observer is watching the object, who is observing the Observer?
always denies things
âI want to live a simple life without rollercoasters, without conflicts, just gray lifeâ
But⌠there was no change in his intentions. Heâs afraid to live and take risks. Heâs afraid to follow the spirit and to update his mindset, and only watches me from afar, when I need him by my side.
Do we have the same TF?
This entire thread is FASCINATING, thank you for sharing! Very interested in the Quantum book. I also resonated with the âanger= bad and so therefore avoidedâ because I definitely am guilty of that. But mostly itâs because I grew up with an angry father and had two very abusive partners, so anger is always scary now.
This has made it difficult for me to learn to assert boundaries, because doing so always made these people angry, so I just stopped doing it. My TF has definitely helped me see that asserting healthy boundaries and allowing myself to feel anger are good things.
I spent so much time in that observer mode, constantly questioning every emotion and reaction in my TF journey. It was exhausting! Learning to BE with whatever comes up, whether itâs considered âpositiveâ or ânegative,â has been game-changing for my own healing process.
I might have to check out this book since it addresses exactly what Iâve been working through. Thank you
Well, due to the context of the previous comments here, I continue to write my progress in this thread. And what I write here now will be seen exactly by those who need to see it.
So, above I pointed out the book âQuantum Consciousnessâ.
Elsewhere on the forum, Iâve mentioned the âManifestâ TV series and âThe Frequenciesâ movie, which tucks into how things work with twins and where the synchronicities come from.
Also I mentioned the Gene Keys book, which is the best tutorial to quantum consciousness (and how to get there) I ever read.
All these puzzles were crucial for my deeper understanding of things. And it took time to unpack all the wisdom, it didnât happen overnight. However all these knowledge came to me for purpose! Otherwise, I just wouldnât have been able to decipher anything that started happening to me in the context of Twin Flame journey.
After the quantum consciousness book I immediately felt the peace that many people talk about here. The peace that precedes union. And I felt I need more puzzles to fully get how things work.
I continued to watch for signs. Literally everything became my sign. And I got some movie recommendations. Both movies touch on the concept of moving between realities. And here I want to share another TV series â Dark Matter (2024).
If you want to leave the reality where youâre WAITING for your partner and get to the reality where youâre together, itâs time to master quantum consciousness, and this series literally helps you get your head around how it works, and how the details of things donât matter, itâs your spirit that matters. Dark matters, subconscious matters.
Attention: mind blowing stuff
In my story, I choose the exact door that leads me to the exact scenario Iâm living. Walking around in different worlds equals going crazy, I already understood that. And as soon as I chose exactly my life, like main character did, I realized that my twin already here. In the Now. I FELT that. I couldnât feel that earlier â because thatâs how our body mutation works (thanks Gene Keys). 7 years for cells reprogramming. We need a lot of patience. Try to recognize when your transformation journey started. Maybe even before meeting your twin.
So, thereâs a point in our story that I always thought was a main problem, but now itâs become a key clue. For a while before we met, my twin was living in a state of âI want my girlfriend, I want to keep her, I want to ride to her, I want her to wait for meâ.
His state of CONSCIOUSNESS is real. He was radiating it.
Yes, his MIND thought his partner was another person he met, who lives in another country. And my twin began to live in this STATE of WANTING that his love, who he met, would wait for him so he could come to her.
But the energy doesnât lie. Twins are us, and all his strong desires draw me to him specifically, just as my desires draw him to me. No matter what he is thinking by logical mind, no matter what he sees in the material realm. We know itâs an illusion most of the times.
When things started to heat up, I told him, without really knowing why, âYou asked God for me, you called me, and here I am. Why canât you see? Why are you running?â.
And I started to get lost in my own parallel worlds⌠Until one day.
Gosh, that girl only existed to help us met. She still has her way to go. Perhaps, her twin is searching for her too. So itâs all about states, and thatâs why the smartest/strongest of us can move the whole thing.
The key word for calling the Twin Flame back to you â is a state of LONGING. I live with it my entire life, he too. The Gene Key 55 contains everything about twin flames. And this is our future. The whole world mutates and thatâs why this topic so important now. Thatâs why we are here. Thereâs also a date â 2027. Consider to read that key if you wonder why the twin flames theme became so popular exactly right now.
This is a stunning post. It triggered me to write a lengthy piece in my journal dissecting some of what you wrote.
Within it, you described PERFECTLY the exact predicament my twin and I found ourselves in as initially I was longing for somebody else who I wrongly believed was the love of my life and there did come a curious moment where my twin indirectly asked me âWhy canât you see? Why are you running?â from her. Parts of this post, I could kinda hear my twin saying what you wrote so in a way it feels like you channeled their thoughts and feelings to me which I needed to hear today. And yes, my twin did try talking to me about different states of consciousness along the lines you do here. I will read that page you linked to about Gene Key 55 later when I finish my shift at work.
Anyway, thank you for your post.
Hey, thanks for your comment. I got a goosebumps - it was very important to me to know that someone else had the same scenario.
Iâll share my favorite piece of prophecy here.
The Marriage of the Sacred Couple
As we touched upon previously, the coming shift will precipitate the end of the age of the individual âIâ and the beginning of the age of the collective âWeâ. There are multiple stages in this process, and the first stage concerns a major shift in the frequency of relationships on our planet. The awakening will bring many new phenomena into the world, one of which we have always dreamed of but never yet attained â the ideal of the sacred marriage. The contemporary institution of marriage is an attempt to capture this ideal on the physical plane. However, marriages and relationships until now, even the clearest and purest, have not been able to fully embody the principle of marriage at its highest potential â the actual sharing of the same aura.
In order for the ideal of the sacred couple to exist on the physical plane there must first be a melding of awareness. This is the âunio mysticaâ or âconuinctoâ spoken of by the alchemists. Enlightenment or realisation has always been a state that flowers in individuals and historically, the world has never seen an enlightened couple in its truest sense. We may have seen symbolic examples, and there are certainly couples who have experienced these states together for short periods of time. However, the first stage in the breaking down of barriers between these human forms will be the healing of the yin/yang split between man and woman. The ancestral pressure between the sexes is so vast that it has thus far prevented true melding.When the first relationships experience dual enlightenment, we will know that the deepest wound of all has finally been healed â the wound symbolised by the division and fall of Adam and Eve. These sacred marriages will have an unbelievable energy field around them â in fact, they will be at the core of whole new communities. Such experiences will herald the end of sexuality as we know it today because the same genetic force that repels the sexes is the force responsible for mating. In other words, the human sexual force will gradually be sublimated into creativity and higher consciousness. Over time, this means that the population of our planet will go through a steady and consistent decline.
The ancient symbol for the 55th Gene Key is the cup of abundance or the sacred chalice. At the Shadow level of consciousness this cup is never full â one side of the relationship is always pulling and the other pushing, one needing and the other rejecting. This situation is caused because of the human tendency to blame, which creates a constant dynamic in the relationship whereby both partners drain each other.
In the human relationships that are coming, the cup is neither half-full nor half-empty. There is only one awareness in the relationship, so the cup is always overflowing. We will no longer fall in love, but we will rise in love. The great love that exists between the yin and yang will finally shatter the illusion of our separateness and release the endless font of energy from the nucleus of creation itself. Ultimately, it will be through the extended families and communities of these sacred marriages that the new awareness will spread.
Additionally, when I was already in my twinâs sight, but we hadnât met yet, my auric sensitivity became very acute. I felt everyone who passed by, it was very difficult for me to be in public. Once we met and physically touched, that hypersensitivity soon smoothed out.
I went further today and watched the movie named Coherence (2013):
Four couples gather for dinner the night a mysterious and powerful comet passes overhead. As unexplained events begin to bend reality in frightening ways. As the night unfolds, people experience terrifying revelations about themselves, forcing each one to question their own reality. Relationships strain under the pressure and, for at least one woman, the prospect of continuing on in the house becomes even more unbearable than whatever unknown fate lies down the road.
If we consider the concept of multiverse, our twin is in that place where we feel absolutely at home. And there are also many copies of our twin with whom we lose that coherence (attunement). And we lose our mutual understanding. By continuing to interact on terms we are uncomfortable with, we create a branch/branches of reality, and the more choices we make that donât resonate with our inner voice, the further away we are from our version of twin and from our true home.
For example, I know (just know!) that my twin always finds/contacts me first. And every time I compromise with myself and write him first, Iâm already writing NOT to my twin from that point on, but to his copy.
I know, mind-blowing thing, itâs better to see the movies and understand the quantum concept. This explains to me everything - why the initial idyll soon turns into a self-loss. Every choice made in compromise with inner truth creates a new branch away from Home. In the same way, I hope, every decision made in alignment with our heart brings us back closer to Home.