Giving Up on the Chaser Might Be the Way Forward

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I know we always say it, but… surrender is the way to actually get to a reunion.

Just a lot easier said than done.

Maybe you’ve tried to distract yourself with other relationships or hobbies, but they’re always in your mind. Maybe their voice shows up through telepathy or their feeling of being next to you.

I’m wondering if completely letting go - stopping all contact, unfollowing on social media, even avoiding making playlists they might see - is the key to finally achieving union. It’s terrifying to consider, but could detaching entirely be what breaks the cycle? What’s your experience been with letting go, and did it change anything in your journey?

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Releasing your grip is both the answer to make everything easier and the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do.

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Weirdly when you do manage to ‘give up’ and take a step back you actually bring yourselves closer together…

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Completely letting go was terrifying, but it finally allowed my twin to come forward without feeling pressured.

I know it’s hard, but we’re here for you. It’s also worth it.

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When I stopped obsessing over my twin and deleted their number, I felt a strange sense of peace. Interestingly, it was only after I’d truly accepted being alone that they reached out again. But by then, I’d changed so much that our dynamic was different.

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I totally get the urge to give up - I’ve been there too. Sometimes letting go and focusing on yourself is exactly what you need to do, not just for your own wellbeing but also to create space for your twin to potentially come back when the time is right.

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I’ve been where you are, and I know how tempting it is to give up completely.

But true surrender isn’t about cutting all ties… it’s about releasing expectations and finding peace within yourself, which often brings your twin closer unexpectedly.

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TBH, letting go completely is scary AF but IMHO it’s the only way to break the cycle and finally move forward - I did it and it was hard AF but now I feel so much lighter and at peace, even tho I still think of them sometimes.