I am happy to meet everyone on the forum and hope this message finds you all well. I am so confused about what has happened to me and really need someone to talk to. I don’t think this path is clear cut and follows any kind of pattern to Union.
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Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful.
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Its ok some us us feel the same way also. We are here. Its a unique experience for sure…very deep and spiritual yet not clear cut. Requires sometimes a matured perspective from above because alot dont make sense from where we are on earth lol
Welcome to the community. Sometimes just having a space to process everything openly, with people who get it, can bring clarity.
The fact that you’re questioning and seeking understanding shows you’re ready to dive deeper into your own truth. What sparked your awakening to this connection?
While there’s no clear-cut path, reaching out like you’ve done here is a great first step, and I hope you’ll find support and understanding in this community.
You’ll need to put in the work to read, understand and see what resonates with your path.
Maybe we should pin a “start here” thread with a guide on the basics to help people feeling overwhelmed
I totally get the confusion - my twin flame journey has felt like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without instructions… while blindfolded. But the messy, unpredictable parts are where the real growth happens. Hang in there, keep your sense of humor, and remember - even if the path isn’t clear, you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
HI. I hope this reply finds you well. I have done everything backward in my life, this includes my twin flame journey. Why did the Universe wait 34 years to tell me the boy I fell in love with when I was a teenager is my twin flame? None of it makes sense.
HI. I hope this reply finds you well. I have done everything backward in my life, this includes my twin flame journey. Why did the Universe wait 34 years to tell me the boy I fell in love with when I was a teenager is my twin flame? None of it makes sense. I do know that when I first met him, I felt an energy that crept up my legs into my solar plexus that almost knocked me over. We where together for 5 years and our relationship was starting to become toxic. Our break up was ubrupt.
I haven’t thought of him in 34 years and now the obsessive thoughts and magnetic pull is too much. It started as you need to contact him. I thought I was crazy but the more I ignored the thoughts the stronger they became. In days it was an urgency that I could not put off. What I did feel when thinking of him is an energy that started at my feet all the way into my chest. It was the most beautiful feeling of euphoria. It was an energy I did not want to stop. I think of him now when I am relaxed and get a warm energy. Then the emotions came, I could not stop crying, got angry for no reason, and depressed. The magnetic pull almost knocked me out of my chair,it felt like some one had tied a rope around my waist and was pulling. I dreamed of him quit often. I did contact him because I thought he died, but no, I found out what I always knew, he doesn’t want anything to do with me. So I meditate and try to detach and heal. But can’t get him out of my mind. I have been on a spiritual journey on and off since I was 18. I have changed so much and confronted so many shadows and healed a lot from a tumultuous life. At one point I hated God the Universe and blamed my hardships on them. Not any more. I meditate but do not get an answer. So I go on with my days looking at synchronicities, his name, and the State where he lives and any reminders the Universe can conjure up for me. I do not stalk his social media, I have learned boudaries. LOL its his loss.
The TF journey rarely follows a clear pattern, and feeling confused is totally normal; just remember to trust your intuition and be kind to yourself as you navigate this unique experience.
My TF journey has been anythingbut clear-cut too. Sometimes it feels like we’re stumbling through the dark, doesn’t it? Sending you strength and clarity as you navigate this experience!
Felt lost AF myself too at times DM’s been MIA for months, but I’m trusting the process and working on raising my vibes. Sending u strength - we’re all in this crazy 5D experience together!
During my twin flame journey, I found that solo hikes in nature gave me space to think and make sense of my inner chaos. Maybe switching up your surroundings could spark some fresh realizations for you too.