The season can stir up a lot of feelings, especially if your twin flame is celebrating elsewhere.
Just wanted to reach out to this community and send love during what can be an emotionally intense season. Remember to be gentle with yourself, stay grounded, and know that youāre exactly where you need to be. The holidays are a perfect time to focus on self-love and growth.
Despite any challenges, letās share what weāre thankful for this year.
Iām grateful for this community and the inner growth this journey has inspired. What are you grateful for?
Thank you for creating this supportive space. Youāre right - the holidays can magnify emotions around our twin flame connections.
I do hope everyone is finding some joy this year, whatever else might be happening with their connection.
Iām grateful for being able to spend this festive season with my own twin. Iām grateful for how this path has taught me to love myself more deeply and trust divine timing. The growth, while it was challenging, has been transformative.
I am grateful to the collective and the community that has helped me make such huge strides this year.
I am grateful to be in contact with my twin and seeing her again soon. We wonāt be together Christmas day but weāre messaging every few hours and thatās certainly changed for the better recently.
Thanks for the holiday self-care reminder! Iām grateful my twin flame and I finally synced up our Netflix accounts this year - now we can binge cheesy Christmas movies ātogetherā from afar. Hot cocoa tastes even better when you imagine your twin flame is sipping it too. Wishing everyone cozy vibes and minimal family drama this season!
Thank you for this thread. The holidays have been tough without my twin, but Iām so grateful for the inner strength Iāve discovered through this journey. Despite the longing, Iām focusing on nurturing myself and trusting that weāre exactly where we need to be right now.
I spent 9 happy Holidays with my twin before she ran away. Currently entering the 2nd Holidays without her.
My twin is my wife, and we had all those family traditions and everything. Weāre lesbians with no kids, but together we were the most awesome duo of aunties for our nephews and nieces. We had this whole family life we built for ourselves, and also a very rich family life with both our families. We were settling for life in this amazing family love.
Now Iām starting a 2-week vacation in which I know managing my thoughts and emotions will be extremely challenging. Last year, Holidays were a total pain to get through. This year, Iām more whole by myself after so much of inner work, and I have found some kind of peace inside that allows me to not move on, but also not stay stagnant, and if I believe all the signs and readings and tarot and everything, my twin is on her way back to me.
But patience at this time of the year is something else. Itās still a very difficult time to face. Family season without the one person that is litteraly the core of your family to youā¦ Yeah.
So I plan to give lots of love to my nephews and nieces (on my side of the family - canāt really see my nieces from her side), to my brothers and my amazing parents, and hope my heart can handle all other emotions. Iām also planning to take a lot of me-time and do whatever my soul wants while I welcome 2025 with hopes for my marriage, for a union that will bring back all that is dearest to me.
hey everyone, iāve been taking lots of walks by the lake and having cozy movie nights at home to recharge before the holiday craziness - itās really helping me feel more grounded and ready to show up fully for family gatherings without getting overwhelmed.
Truthfully, when you factor in just how large and vast this world is, along with how many billions of unique souls are it it, its trully a miracle for this to have occured.
Two incarnations of the same soul meeting in the same time and spaceā¦by all accounts it should be impossible. And yet, its real. This entire journey is real.
I coudnāt be more greatful to be on it, with all of you here.
Havenāt had a Christmas with my twin since high school. 20 years later marks my third chance since over the last three years since we reconnected. Yet somehow each year we blow it right before some days prior. Last year was December 2nd then we didnāt meet again til March. The year before was November 28th and we didnāt reunite until Easter the following year. This year weāre so close but I feel like running. Not just from her but from everything and just going somewhere no one recognizes me. Why do I feel this way?
Iām grateful for the space to heal and grow on my own terms this year, even if it means being apart during the holidays. Focusing on self-care has helped me feel more centered and at peace with where I am on my journey.
While I appreciate the sentiment, focusing too much on my twin flame during the holidays actually increases my anxiety. Instead, Iām grateful for the opportunity to reconnect with family and old friends this season, which helps ground me and reminds me of who I am outside of the TF journey.
