Has anyone else felt stuck in limbo while their twin seems content with the status quo? I’ve been through the wringer, transforming my life and pursuing new passions, but he’s just… existing. How long before the universe gives him a much-needed wake-up call, or am I fooling myself by thinking he’ll ever change?
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I know it’s agonizing to feel stuck while your twin seems content, but try to focus on your own growth and healing - their awakening will come in its own time, and pushing or waiting won’t speed things up.
I’ve been there, feeling stuck while my twin seemed oblivious. But remember, their journey is their own - focus on your growth and healing, and trust that things will align when the time is right. ?
I know this feeling. We had this intense connection, but he'd constantly disappear on me without warning. It was like an emotional seesaw, you know?
One day, after yet another ghosting episode, I had this moment of clarity. I realized I was worth more than this back-and-forth we were doing. It hit me that I had a choice: keep this cycle going or choose my peace of mind.
Don’t get me wrong, the love is still there. But I’ve learned that sometimes loving yourself means letting go, even when it comes to a twin flame connection. It’s not easy, but putting myself first for once has been so liberating.
I know it’s hard, but this kind of thinking only holds you back. Learned this the hard way.
Sometimes, we’re far apart, and that’s okay! We’re always connected, even when we can’t see it. 
Maybe especially so. I stopped trying to control everything and just embraced the experience. Now I feel so much lighter and happier!
Many of us have been there. It will pass and they will come back.