I know a lot of twin flames focus on the downsides and difficulties of the twin flame experience but…
I love being here.
I love this.
I love the experience. The journey. The love. I even love the separation (sometimes).
My journey is not always easy but it it always for my greatest good.
When I first met my DM… it was like seeing a reflection of my soul in human form. Not a perfect reflection - more like looking into water that ripples. But I could not look away.
I wasn’t very spiritual. I owned a Tarot deck for fun and didn’t take it seriously but this just…
The syncs were impossible to ignore. 11:11 everywhere (not that I knew what that was in the beginning. I just thought it was strange). My twin’s name appearing in strange places. Songs that spoke directly to our connection playing at just the right moment.
I started having dreams of them. Not the romantic kind - just fragments of conversations we’d later have word for word. Spirit just preparing us I guess.
Some days, I feel their presence even from miles away. Other times, the distance teaches me to find wholeness within myself. They challenge me to grow in ways no one else can. Each trigger is a gift wrapped in uncomfortable paper, each separation a chance to dive deeper into self-love.
Sometimes I catch myself smiling at nothing, knowing they’re thinking of me too. It’s the strangest thing - feeling someone else’s joy or sadness as if it were your own, even when they’re not around.
People say twin flames are meant to teach us the hardest lessons. They’re right.
They say separation sucks, they’re right.
What they don’t mention is how beautiful it is to finally meet someone who sees all your shadows and loves them just as much as your light.
We are not living together but we are in contact. I think he is starting to understand it better.
It took some time to get there. He mocks most ‘spiritual’ things but the further we go, the more he starts to ask questions that surprised me at first.
I read that twin flames often inspire each other to grow and change and often get interested in the others hobbies and interests. When I was going to a meditation retreat he ‘happened’ to text that he had just downloaded Headspace (a meditation app).
I TOTALLY get what you mean about LOVING the journey, even the tough parts! Sometimes I catch myself SMILING at random moments too, feeling that DEEP connection across any distance.
I totally relate to feeling their presence from miles away - it’s like an invisible thread connecting us no matter the distance. Those unexpected moments of shared joy or sadness are a beautiful sign of our deep connection <3
I like this way of looking at it more of us should celebrate no matter where we are at on the journey.
I feel you on those random smiles! Just yesterday I caught myself grinning like an idiot in the grocery store because I swear I could feel my twin’s excitement about something.
<3