Hey everyone. I sent a love letter to my twin the other day. Let me give some context. I’m the DF chaser and she is the DM runner. This started back in 2023. This was sll happend as we both started going to the same gym at the same time every day. My feelings were strong since day one, but it took me a long time to confess to her. 4 months ago I did. Feelings built up and I felt extremely called to doing it. We talked for maybe 5 minutes. I got to know her name and a little about herself. Those 5 minutes were some of the best of my life being in her presence. Long story short I confessed and she said she had a boyfriend. I know that she doesn’t, and I know that she was just running from it. I could see that she felt more inside she just wasn’t ready to say it in that moment. It’s been 4 months since. The past 4 months have been rough, but I have grown and now I no longer chase her. I’m stable in my energy and I’m okay with the life I live alone. She had showed nothing to me but a few smiles at the gym the past months. I never truly got to express deeply on my feelings, so I never felt truly fulfilled. 2 days ago I stumbled across her Facebook page. Fyi I didn’t know much but her name, and seeing her facebook helped me see more of who she was. I found out she is 10 years older than me. All this new found information after 2 years of silence sparked something inside. Soul called me to write my love letter and i decided to send it to where she works. This was mainly so that I could let her truly know my feelings and how she affected me these past 2 years. I poured my heart and soul into this letter and now I wait to hear from her. She will receive the letter this week, so I’ll update you guys on what comes. I came to the conclusion that I’m happy where I am, but I want her to know the love and gratitude I always had for her. She can not respond, she can think I’m weird, she can make fun of me for it, but at the end of the day she will know someone in this world loved her more than anyone else. I’m happy and content as long as she knows that. If you guys feel called to let them know I advise you do, no matter the outcome. Show your love and let them know it. Do you want to be able to say you had the guts to get in the car 50 years from now ? I can say I did and I’m happy with it. Let love in friends thanks for reading!
I get that overwhelming feeling of needing to express your feelings to your twin!
I think the collective put out some stories… here (found it!) of other people who reached out. You might be interested in others experiences.
Just a gentle thought - sending a letter to someone’s workplace might cross some boundaries, especially when you’ve had limited interaction so far. Even with twin flames, respecting their space is important.
The good news? You mentioned you’re more stable in your energy now and content with your life. That’s honestly the most powerful part of this journey! This internal growth is exactly what helps shift the connection energetically.
What’s done is done with the letter. Whatever happens next, try to:
- Keep focusing on your growth rather than her reaction
- Stay in that stable energy you’ve built
- Trust the timing of your journey
The most healing twin flame connections happen when both people work on themselves first.
Keep us posted if you want to share what happens, and remember many of us here understand that pull you’re feeling. Sending good energy your way!
Hello @ChrisGonz05. Perhaps I need more clarification about your story, and maybe I misunderstand. Were you together or speaking to your TF for 4 months before she ran? Does your connection extend to beyond your interaction at the gym or for those 5 minutes?
Kudos to you for sending that letter. I can understand how expressing your feelings can be scary and put your in a vulnerable position. I guess I am interested to know more about your back story, if you would like to share.
Also would love to hear if she responded!
No I was not talking to my twin flame for any amount of time before those 5 minutes. We have never been in union whatsoever, but we seen eachother every morning. The back story is complicated. I always knew there was more to it, but just recently found out that we are going through this twin flame experience. I believe she is not aware of it, but I know she is aware of the feelings and my feelings as of now. After our interaction I went silent and she started to chase. I felt that her energy shifted. She knew that I was focused on me and I wasn’t giving in anymore. She gave me her eyes and i caught her staring multiple times. I also can just feel her energy so it was easy to know what was going on. As of now i decided to walk away. That is the main reason I sent that letter because i believe its time to move on. I believe she had received the letter, but she hasn’t acted on it yet. Energy feels overwhelming right now and I feel that may be her energy at play. I’m not really affected by her actions at this point, I’m letting the universe work on this and letting go of control. Thanks for responding friend it feels good to know that there are people who understand this stuff.
Wait! Did I read this right? You wrote a physical love letter to her? In this day and age?
Good sir, are you professor by any chance? Because you could certainly teach many men nowadays a thing or two about good ol’ fashioned romance!
Whatever the outcome is, I guarantee you she will remember you for a very long time.
I have nothing but admiration and respect for you good sir!
As Shakespeare once wrote…better to love and loose than not love…or something like that! 
Thanks Man i really appreciate the kind words! Yeah I wanted to show her that I’m different and make sure she couldn’t run from it lol. Anyways no response yet but I’m keeping my head up. Thanks again!