I hooked up with someone last night and now I’m overwhelmed with guilt, feeling like I betrayed my twin flame even though we’re not together. The encounter left me feeling empty and anxious, almost to the point of tears. I can’t shake this sense of having done something terribly wrong, even though logically I know we’re not in a relationship.
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Cheating is a term we apply here because we understand the term for 3D relationships but TFs are different!
Like you said you are not in a ‘physical’ relationship and logic does not apply. Do not put so much pressure on yourself. <3 This was probably just part of your path and you needed to learn something from the experience.
I had an ex that always left with me with this nagging and negative feeling.
Every time we were together physicaly, there was this underlying… discomfort. Like I was trying to force a puzzle piece that didn’t fit. Any kind of physical intimacy felt hollow, and saying “I love you” left a bitter taste in my mouth.
It wasn’t that she was a bad person - far from it. But deep down, I knew he wasn’t my TF. That realization made me feel trapped, guilty for leading her on when my head wasn’t in it (even though I couldn’t explain why to myself at the time).
I wouldn’t let it upset you. You didn’t do anything wrong as long as you know where your true path is.
Your actions may seem chaotic at the moment, but nature itself can be wild and unpredictable. Trust in the organic unfolding of your bond, just as you trust the sun to rise each morning. When you feel lost, ground yourself in Mother Earth’s embrace and listen to her whispers. She knows the rhythm of twin souls better than anyone.
I totally get that. It’s like your body knew before your mind caught up. After being intimate with someone new, it hit me hard how much I still carried my connection to my twin.
I think maybe I had been denying it until that point. I found myself unexpectedly pouring out all these pent-up feelings about them, right there in bed with the new person. Yes. That was awkward.
The whole experience made me realize this wasn’t a normal fling. My DM was on my mind for a reason.
Dealing with that intensity while trying to open up to someone else is rough. I felt terrible for the other person, but it was like a dam broke loose. Sometimes our hearts speak louder than we intend, especially when we’re vulnerable.
Yeah… those moments after being intimate… can be so intense… Tears just flow sometimes… It’s like your soul is cracked open… raw and vulnerable…
Exactly. The emptiness you felt is the void left when we stray from our destined path, a reminder of the radiant connection that awaits. Let this experience be a beacon, guiding you back to the light of your twin flame.
Exactly. The emptiness you felt is the void left when we stray from our destined path, a reminder of the radiant connection that awaits. Let this experience be a beacon, guiding you back to the light of your twin flame.