Hey everyone, I’m really struggling to figure out if my DF actually has feelings for me.
She keeps running, and I can’t tell if it’s just fear or if she genuinely doesn’t care. I seem to change my mind every hour or so.
Sometimes, I catch these little moments where it feels like she’s trying to reach out, but she pulls back again. How do you know if they are real feelings or if I’m just seeing what I want to see?
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I’ve been there, done that and bought way too many T-shirts. It’s nearly impossible to understand their feelings sometimes (at least if we focus just on the 3D).
The best thing to do right now is not to worry about it (easier said than done, I know). Focus on you for now, further your TF journey, and you’ll gain clarity on her true feelings and the connection will naturally unfold as it’s meant to.
Ah, those hot and cold jumps.
Don’t worry. You are definitely not alone.
One thing that helped me was keeping a journal of those little moments when I felt a connection. If this really is your twin flame, they’re not in your head, and you’re probably picking up on her energy. You just get better at spotting it.
Over time, patterns might emerge that give you more clarity. Remember, your intuition is powerful - if you’re sensing something genuine beneath the surface, there’s likely truth to it. Eventually that becomes a lot more useful to help you both rather than… hurt.
The little moments of connection are usually real - our twins can’t fully hide their true feelings. It leaks through from their higher selves, and we see little glimpses of it in 3D, even if they don’t realize it yet.
But try (I know this is not easy) not to obsess over-analyzing every interaction. Focus on healing yourself and sending love, and trust that if it’s meant to be, things will develop naturally in time. ?
Love hurts, love scars, love wounds and mars.
With twin flames… it also confuses the hell out of you. If you feel that spark between you, it’s still real.
My twin used to do the same push-pull behavior, but I learned to trust those little moments of connection - they’re usually Spirit’s way of showing us the love is real, even when fear gets in the way. <3
I totally get where you’re coming from (been there, done that!) so you’re not alone!
Those little moments of connection are usually genuine, even if your DF pulls back afterward (fear is a powerful thing). Trust your gut (and your intuition) about those moments, but try not to obsess over them or read too much into every little action (easier said than done, I know).
Sounds perfectly normal for the twin flame journey. Don’t worry too much about it.
For runners it’s usually more about reacting to fear than being in denial.