Is it possible for twin flames to cheat?
“I wanna know what love is. I want you to show me,” but how can I when you are in someone else’s arms? It’s tearing me apart inside.
I thought twins couldn’t betray each other like this, but here we are, and I’m left wondering if this connection was ever real or if I’m just fooling myself. Maybe its all part of the journey, but it hurts so much right now I can’t help but question everything we’ve been through
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You’ll probably get different answers here because you’re asking a question about terminology.
Is it physically possible for you (or your TF) to sleep with someone else? Yes. Absolutely.
Does it mean they’re not your twin? Not necessarily.
Does it mean they are your twin? Not at all.
Your twin probably cheats for a different reason than a ‘normal’ person would, but it’s still cheating.
If your goal is union, it’s not something you should be putting up with. It’s not a healthy relationship dynamic. If it happens, it doesn’t mean your union won’t ever happen but it does mean the two of you are not ready now.
I’ve been there, feeling that gut-wrenching pain when my twin was with someone else while I was pregnant - it’s a soul-crushing experience that can make you question everything.
I forgave him because I understood why it happened. I still don’t tolerate it and can’t be treated this way. When we both are ready, we can try again.
This journey isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, and sometimes, the deepest lessons come from our most painful moments.
I know it hurts deeply, but try to remember that your twin’s actions likely stem from their fears and unhealed wounds - it doesn’t negate your connection, but it does mean you both still have inner work to do before you can come into true union.
No one ever thinks they’ll be betrayed by their loved ones. Especially their twin. But the sad reality is that it DOES happen!
Any relationship is susceptible to betrayal and deceipt. Twin flame…soulmate…it does not matter!
What does matter is you and your twin’s response to this event.
Healing and renewal IS possible, but it requires the courage for both individuals to embrace humility and vunerability, in order to explore the real and true cause that led to this event.
Because I will tell you, a healthy and supportive relationship doesn’t just turn toxic overnight.
This way, a real and deep change can occur in your relationship. An event like this doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship, it can be a catalyst for an even stronger bond!
When you put it that way, maybe some of us go through this and it is just part of our path.
Aww, I get how you’re feeling! 
It’s tough when your twin flame is with someone else. But you know what? Sometimes, we have to go through difficult experiences to grow and learn.
This might just be part of your journey together and an opportunity to learn and grow (together). Stay strong and keep your heart open - your connection is special no matter what. <3 
There’s no simple yes or no… ah, the complexity of twin flames.
Even in their divine connection, they’re wonderfully human. Some of us have stumbled, made mistakes, and even cheated. But here’s the magic - that deep soul bond means they don’t want to cause pain.
It’s like they hold your heart, even when they fumble. I’ve felt that bittersweet ache, that mix of hurt and understanding. It’s challenging but taught me much about love, forgiveness, and growth. Despite the difficulties, I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s transforming me in ways I never imagined.
I’m not really sure, but maybe it depends on where you are in the journey. For example, I think my DM wouldn’t cheat now that we’ve come far enough along, but before that… I don’t know.
It felt like anything could happen when we were starting out or during separation. Sometimes, I wonder if he might have strayed while running, you know? It’s hard to say for sure. Everyone’s path is different, and I’m still trying to figure it out myself.
Part of me wants to believe cheating isn’t possible for true twin flames, but then again, we’re all human, right? It isn’t obvious, and I’m not sure about any of it.
I feel like I'm in a cosmic battle between light and shadow. My twin flame is out there, but we're not together yet. He's entangled with someone else - his karmic partner and the mother of his child. It's like watching him fight his demons while I'm stuck on the sidelines.
I can’t help but think: if we finally unite, will the shadow of his past pull him back? Could he betray our sacred bond? The thought terrifies me, yet I’ve never heard that cheating disqualifies a twin flame connection.
Part of me wants to believe that once we’re together, we’ll be invincible—two halves of a whole, impervious to outside temptations. But life isn’t that simple. Even in the most profound connections, we’re still human, still flawed.
This journey feels like a tightrope between hope and fear, unconditional love and self-preservation. I’m learning that being a twin flame doesn’t mean perfection - it means growth, challenges, and sometimes, heartache.
Exploring some of my soul’s history, I found that I made the same mistake in a past life when me and my twin were together. I thought we were inseperable and bound forever in a beautiful and sacred union.
But after a while, reality starts creeping in, and you start taking the connection for granted and things get boring. Your focus changes and shifts to other things.
And that’s when tempation starts to comes out of the woodwork. “What’s the harm in exploring and trying something new? My twin flame loves me unconditionally don’t they? They’ll always be there, but this new opportunity woun’t be!”
One thing leads to another, and all of a sudden, you’re separating.
I think we all fall into this trap where we think that because we are in union, this is it. The work is finished, the lessons are over, the trials have ended, and everything is going to be all happiness and bliss from now on.
But the reality is that union with your twin is the true test, the true “final exam”. Every experience you’ve undergone and every lesson that you’ve learned has been in preparation for this connection. And union is where you will have to show that you have indeed learned the lessons that you were meant to learn on your journey.
Because ultimatly that, I believe, is the end goal. To learn how to have a stable and fulfilling long term connection with them. 
What you’re experiencing isn’t about cheating - it’s about releasing old patterns and belief systems around possession and control.
I think you are right. Union happens on many levels - spiritual, emotional, mental, energetic and physical.
Like two saplings from the same seed, my twin and I grew in toxic soil. We're not false shoots - nature doesn't play tricks. Our roots intertwined, but our leaves turned brittle and brown.
I’ve heard whispers that true twins can’t be so poisonous to each other. But I believe we’re exactly what we need to be right now - a mirror of each other’s flaws, reflecting the work we both need to do.
It’s easy to mistake a fleeting wildfire for the steady warmth of the sun. Many get burned chasing that intensity, confusing it for proper connection. But real growth takes time like a mighty oak slowly reaching for the sky.
We are the twins we are, thorns and all. Calling the other a “false twin” is just our ego’s way of avoiding the hard work of pruning our branches. Healthy trees don’t end up in toxic groves.
Watched my twin fall for another ? Our story rewritten ? Hurt, yet oddly free ?? My chance to choose love ? Becoming whole by letting go ?