“The heart wants what it wants.” This quote resonates deeply with the inexplicable draw I feel toward my TF.
Like an invisible cord tugging at my soul, urging me to reach out even when logic says otherwise. Sometimes, it manifests as a sudden warmth in my chest, other times as an overwhelming desire to hear their voice. I’m curious if others experience this magnetic pull in different ways—perhaps as recurring thoughts or even physical sensations.
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Ah what is “normal” for TFs? 
But yes, the pull feeling between you both is pretty common. It manifests differently but it’s definitely something you’ll see people talk about.
Hey, I totally get that intense pull you’re describing. For me, it’s like this constant awareness of my twin’s energy, even when we’re apart - sometimes it hits me out of nowhere and I just know they’re thinking of me too.
Everyone is going to feel this a bit differently. It will change more intense at different times or depending on where either of you are in your spiritual work.
Exactly right, the intensity ebbs and flows based on your spiritual development and alignment.
What feels like an unbearable pull today might transform into a peaceful knowing tomorrow as you progress through your inner work.
For me and my DM, the pull manifests like an invisible tether anchored deep in my chest.
The pull is a living, pulsing energy that ebbs and flows but never truly fades. When we’re in conflict, it feels like a raw, aching void - a hollowness that can only be filled by reconnecting. I can sense their thoughts, their feelings and their emotional state.
I can feel when they’re at peace or in turmoil, awake or asleep. This constant awareness of their soul so intrinsically linked to mine is beautiful and overwhelming.
Sometimes, it’s like catching a familiar scent in the breeze that suddenly takes me back to a moment we shared. It’s not always logical, but my heart gets something my brain can’t quite figure out.
Probably one of the most normal signs any TFs experience. Even if we don’t call it a pull, I think we always feel drawn toward our DM.