Hey hey 
I just found out my twin is married and I am too. Because of this new information … I’m feeling a little like an intruder. I mean I don’t know his story, I only know mine. Anyone else navigating similar situations?
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The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful.
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Marriage and twin flame connections often interweave in complex ways.
You’re not an intruder - many twin flames meet when one or both are married. This situation arises because twin flames often connect after establishing lives with other partners.
Some important perspectives to consider:
- Your existing marriage deserves respect and consideration
- You can honor your twin flame bond without compromising your marriage vows
- Marriage to others can serve an important purpose in both twins’ growth
- The connection with your twin doesn’t invalidate your feelings for your spouse
- Neither marriage nor the twin flame bond needs to be seen as “right” or “wrong”
Focus on your own growth and healing rather than taking actions that could disrupt either marriage. Work on yourself, maintain appropriate boundaries, and let divine timing guide any changes that may naturally unfold.
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I totally understand those feelings of being an intruder - I’ve been there too! But remember, your connection transcends earthly relationships. Focus on your own growth and healing, and trust that everything is unfolding as it should.
Your twin’s marriage doesn’t diminish your bond; it’s all part of the journey you’re both on.
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Hey there! I totally get that feeling of being an “intruder” when you discover your twin is married - I’ve been there too. Just remember, your connection transcends earthly relationships, and you’re both exactly where you need to be on your journeys right now.
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That’s a tough situation to go through (for both of you). I hope it works out for the better but it happens for a reason…
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I’ve been in a similar situation, and it’s normal to feel conflicted at first. Remember that your journey is unique, and being married doesn’t make you any less of a twin flame or diminish your connection.
Focus on your own growth and path, while sending love to your twin from afar - that’s what works best. 
<3
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I totally get that feeling of being an intruder - I felt the same way when I found out my DM was married. For me, it helped to focus on my own journey and growth, trusting that our connection transcends current circumstances.
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Oh wow, yeah. I totally get that feeling of being an intruder. It’s like you’re suddenly aware of this whole other life your twin has been living without you. I’ve been there too and had to learn to just focus on my own growth and trust the journey, even when it feels messy.
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Yes!! Absolutely. I was overstimulated with thoughts about him & questions with no answers that made more questions … finding out some solid facts about him actually quieted my soul … and I feel like I love him so much more.
My twin and I are both married to different people and it’s been so hard since we met because we want to be together but feel we can’t. Even though we are both unhappy in our marriages, we both feel we cannot abandon our marriages for our twin due to moral reasons. We also both have children so the situation is even more complicated. We have never been intimate because we are trying to be respectful of each other’s marriage. We were doing good being “friends” for a while but took it too far the last time we talked and his wife read the messages. Now we are in separation because his wife told him he cannot talk to me anymore. I’m so upset, it’s so hard.
I totally resonate with this!
Kinda makes you appreciate the whole divine plan even more, doesn’t it?
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Yes … I feel quite strongly about not making contact due to those similar situations happening to us. I’ve accepted that I’ve got to make choices based on my needs & not the need to be with him. I understand the sentiment of “love them from afar” now … no, it’s not ideal, & sometimes I do feel lonely without him physically … but that’s a small sacrifice I am willing to make for him, because my love for him encompasses everything he is & has, which includes his marriage, his children, his job etc … I just want him to do well at whatever he wants to do and that he does it with all his might. He inspires me more when I just let him be.
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I’ve been in a similar situation, and while it felt uncomfortable at first, I realized my twin’s marriage doesn’t negate our connection - it’s just part of our separate journeys for now.
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I started keeping a gratitude journal, focusing on the lessons and insights I’ve gained from our connection. It’s been a meaningful way to honor our bond and recognize my personal growth, all while respecting the sacred nature of our potential twin flame journey. This practice has helped me feel more aligned with the universe’s plan for us, without overstepping any boundaries or forcing a connection that should unfold naturally.
I put together this playlist of tunes that made me think of our bond, you know? It was kinda nice, like a small way to feel close without stepping on any toes or anything.