I can’t shake this feeling that they still care, even though we haven’t spoken in months. Sometimes I catch myself thinking about them and suddenly my phone lights up with a message from a mutual friend mentioning their name. It’s like they’re purposely avoiding me, but then I’ll see them pop up in unexpected places or hear songs that remind me of our connection. How can I tell if they’ve truly moved on or if they’re just trying to distance themselves while still holding onto our bond?
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Hey, I totally get where you’re coming from.
That constant feeling of connection despite the silence is pretty common in my connection too but I’ve learned that it can be a good thing.
These little syncs and signs are often the universe’s way of guiding us. Letting you know the bond is still there even if they’re trying to create some distance right now.
They might need this distance in order to heal and get ready for union. That doesn’t mean something is going wrong, just focus on yourself if that’s what you are called to do.
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I’ve been exactly where you are, and those synchronicities can drive you crazy with hope and doubt.
Don’t worry about it too much, trust the process.
I’ve been through this exact situation too.
Hearing their name is a little sync to remind you that the connection is still very much alive.
True separation just isn’t possible for twins, even when there’s physical distance. Trust your intuition; if you feel they still care, they probably do, even if they’re not ready to acknowledge it yet. ?
“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along” - Rumi
I think those synchronicities you’re noticing are actually signs of your twin’s energy reaching out, even if they’re consciously trying to maintain distance. They just can’t help themselves.
Trust your intuition - if you feel they still care, there’s likely truth to it, but remember that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re ready to reconnect in the physical world just yet.
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Even during separation, that energetic connection remains, pulling you together in subtle ways.
Maybe they’re consciously avoiding contact while subconsciously reaching out through shared friends or “random” encounters.
While I can’t say for certain what’s in their heart… That certainly doesn’t sound like they don’t care.
I can tell you (from personal experience) that running doesn’t mean we’ve stopped caring; sometimes we need space to process our own emotions and growth.
For me and my DM, it was less about them actively avoiding me and more about us both needing space to process our connection.
Don’t worry!
Omg, I totally get those synchronicities - it’s like The Tower card come to life, shaking up your world and making you question everything, but trust me, it’s all part of the divine plan to keep you connected to your twin, even when you’re apart!!!
Well, actually, those syncs you’re experiencing are quite common in the twin flame journey, but they don’t necessarily mean your twin is actively thinking of you. The connection is still there but this can be more of a passive sign.
It’s more likely that you’re both subconsciously processing the connection, rather than your twin intentionally sending you messages or avoiding you.
Those coincidences and mixed signals can drive you crazy (hh man, I’ve totally been there), but sometimes we see what we want to see - try to focus on healing yourself instead of reading into every little thing.
Also remember that they are probably seeing syncs sent from you as well.
These “signs” might also be your own heightened awareness rather than actual messages from them? What would it mean for you if they truly have moved on, and how can you find peace with that possibility?
Is there a way you can refocus your energy on your own growth and healing, regardless of their actions or intentions?
Sounds like your twin is mirroring your own energy ? - when you think of them, they feel it and reach out indirectly, showing you’re still connected even from a distance.
They are seeing these same syncs (but if they are spiritually closed off they won’t even notice).
If they’re really your twin flame, I promise you that they haven’t moved on. Don’t sweat it.
Mixed signals seem to be the bread and butter of twin flames 
don’t get too focused on them or you’ll never get anything done.
These coincidences will make you question if youre going crazy or if the universe is trying to tell you something… I think maybe we just gotta trust our gut and let go of expectations cause if it’s meant to be it’ll happen when the time is right!
Those mixed signals can be bloody painful, but try your best to trust your intuition.
If you still sense a lingering connection, it’s likely still there beneath the surface.
Things will align when the time is right.