Moving on from twin

Hey guys. I need some advice or just some insights on moving on. So recently I have felt called to walk away from this and to let my twin figure it out. As some of you guys know I sent a love letter to my twin, she never responded. It’s been a while since that happened but I feel ready to go but I am still connected internally. Last night I had a dream. I seen her at the gym and she said hi with a big smile. we were talking then out of no where she says kiss me. I did just that of course. Anyways it seems like when I’m ready to go she pops back up in some way. What do you guys think ? I feel the universe calling me to move on but then things like this happen. Will this always be this way ? Maybe it’s a sign she will start conversation with me but I don’t like to hold onto those expectations any longer. Let me know what you guys think thanks !

Dang! I really had some high hopes for you man, but no bite I guess. :sleepy_face:

I don’t believe there are any set rules or parameters on how to move on from them. Just do what “feels” right for you. I know its vague and cryptic, but you can:

• Start a new hobby that you might have had on your mind for a while.
• Go travel for a bit.
• Try a silent retreat if you haven’t gone to one already. (Or if you’re feeling brave, try a darkness retreat! :wink:)

Those are just a few examples. The world’s your oyster here boss! The only limit is your own creativity. (and the laws of your country I guess :sweat_smile:)

As for that internal connection you feel, its not likely to go away. Saddly you’ll just have to get used to it and live with it. The general consensus in the community is that it can’t be removed. :neutral_face:

(Side note: I don’t think anyone has ever tried a lobotomy. That might be something worth exploring if we could only find some volunteeers…:thinking:)

So get go on and enjoy yourself! And if you haven’t done so already, give yourself a pat on the back for sending that letter. Its far more than what most men will do nowadays! Remember, there’s more to life than just your twin flame. So chill for a while, and give the universe some time to work its magic! :wink:

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That is how it is for me. It goes in waves. I start to think less about her and think that I will have moved on in a few days. It is not the the universe is calling me to move on but that I want to since that is easier. Then something pops up where the universe is remining me to not move on with synchronicities and things like that.

It happened yeasterday. The day before I felt like I am finally moving on. Then there was quite a few synchronicities and I thought about her alot with quite strong emotions.

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Yeah man it’s weird. Same situation for me. Like the day I felt ready to go she popped back up in ways unexpected. I’m trying to see what the universe still wants me to learn from her. I always think there is a reason for it happening. I wish you luck in this as well it’s not an easy thing for any of us.

Thanks i appreciate it. Yeah i try to think what i did was a great thing but it can be hard sometimes. It’s like i can see what i did was awesome but maybe she can’t see what i have inside of me. I’ve thought that she may be blind to this kind of love and she may just not see what i have to offer. That’s part of the reason i want to move on, if someone can’t see the value inside of me then why should i continue to give to that person ? I’ve been having a good time alone, it’s just when uncontrollable things happen and i have to live with it. Thank you for your feedback!

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