Going through a long drawn out separation and no-contact phase suuucks. Sometims we spend our time looking through their social media or our old messages. What if they just messaged out of the blue?
I’m in the separation phase, he texted me and broke no contact. It was a long message, pouring his heart out and thanking me for such a beautiful, passionate, intense, and sacred connection we had. It was short, but it was real. It was what I needed to hear.
I ran out of tears to cry though. I so desperately want to respond and hold on, but I also know in my soul how important this separation is for both of our healing.
At first I was the one who wanted to make it work at all costs. But I ended up being the one who walked away because I needed to choose myself. I needed to choose someone who will choose me fully, not just partially. And I think that was/is my big life lesson right now.
So thank you for the message. Onwards.
The Cosmic Timing of Twin Flame Messages
Just as they thought about their twin flame, he texted. At a certain point, synchronicity just stops surprising you.
The Courage to Reach Out (and the Strength to Stay Put)
Reaching out during separation takes guts. It’s like trying to pet a lion – thrilling, but potentially dangerous for your heart. The bravery shown in sending that heartfelt message is commendable, but so is the resilience in not immediately responding. Remember, choosing yourself isn’t selfish – it’s necessary for growth.
Balancing Act: Heart’s Desire vs. Soul’s Journey
The twin flame path is like walking a tightrope between two skyscrapers. On one side, there’s the magnetic pull to be together. On the other, the need for individual growth. Finding that sweet spot? That’s where the magic happens.
Lessons in Self-Love and Patience
Choosing yourself doesn’t mean you’re choosing against your twin flame. It’s about creating a better version of you for when the time is right. Think of it as spiritual meal prep – you’re getting all your ingredients in order for the feast of reunion.
Moving Forward with Gratitude
Every message, every synchronicity, is a little love note from the universe. It’s saying, ‘Hey, you’re on the right track!’ So, next time you experience one of these cosmic winks, take a moment to say thanks. Gratitude keeps the good vibes flowing.
Remember, twin flames, your journey is unique. Trust the process, embrace the growth, and keep your eyes peeled for those magical moments of synchronicity. They’re the universe’s way of giving you a cosmic high-five!