I could really use some advice. My twin and I live together but we (my choice) have waited to have sex while we work on the relationship. It’s been a roller coaster so far but there have been a lot of good times as well. The thing is he keeps pushing me away and I just hang in there and show him as much love as I can. It’s like being rejected on a daily basis and the pain is awful. I got a reading a couple days ago that said he doesn’t understand how he feels about me and is struggling with that. I freaking lost it. I have been working so hard on this and myself. It felt like the universe just slapped me in the face. So, me being me found a way to pick a fight and it was a big one. It was the epitome of a tower moment. We are kind of okay now. It just happened Monday and yesterday. The thing is I realized that neither one of us trust the other. I am also wondering if not being intimate is making this harder. I am so lost right now and would be forever grateful for some insight. Thank you.
So…I’m going to ask a very dumb question…
Why doesn’t either of you trust the other? 
You’re not wrong in believing that lack of intimacy makes things harder. There is definitly a strong link between physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. Many can attest to that.
I understand and support your decision to wait to have sex, because personally, I don’t place as much importance on sex as much as most men do and I think focusing on the emotional side of a relationship is a far wiser course of action. However, I also see the other side of the coin and how it could come across as being a little strict in this day and age.
I would advise your twin, that there are other ways of being physically intimate without sex. Plenty of them in fact!
They almost remind me of my own twin flame who, in contrast to me, appears to have a very active Svadhisthana or Sacral Chakra. I’d rather not think about the number of partners they have…“serviced”…so far. 