Releasing my Twin Flame

[Sammyjoe]

I am grateful for this platform. Had it not been here, i would have believed that i was losing my mind. My journey has been interesting. There have been moments when doubt and fear creep in, however something has changed and I would love to hear your interpretation.

I met him on a dating chat site. We live 600 kms apart, but there was something about him that made me send the first message. We chatted for a while and met physically after a year and a half. I knew that I liked him before meeting him becasue he made me catch glimpses of his authentic self. I was familiar with the phrase twin flame, but did not really know as i do now. He said something that night and it’s something I always say to everyone…I have never heard anyone else say this before so you can imagine my surprise. The night was magical and there were so many synchronicities that night. I only see them now more clearly, but after the second meeting…he began distancing himself and then evntually told me he can’t do this and we should end communication. He reached out to me a month later and we continued as though nothing had happened. We met again and that was the last I’ve seen him. It’s been just over a year. The last time felt as though time stood still, yet he was still closed off and not letting me in. And like the previous two times, he distanced himself and we stopped communication.

I think i was in the chasing phase then, as i would still send him a message for his birthday and then a few more over the next few months, until he eventually replied and it was like magic again. Then we would stop chatting, he would block me, unblock me and chat and then tell me he’s done. This time, i felt it. It broke me, it was one of the most difficult emotions i had to go though. I knew what i needed to do, but matters of the heart are sometimes difficult. And this time when he said goodbye, its like everything unfolded before me. We weren’t exclusive, there were others and he lied to me and this triggered me a lot. A lot of revelation and healing came from this. Although i know that i hadn’t released him yet and needed aid from the Divine Source.

On the night of the full moon this month, I set intention and released my twin flame. I had written a letter to him and tore it up in the light of the snow moon. I recited affirmations, I spoke to the Source and surrendered.

I noticed looking back to that day, i have reeleased him. The previous triggers are now observed with love and understanding…
Understanding that he is on his own parh and that if we aee truly meant to be, then nothing can keep us apart. And even though we are apart in our 3D realm, i feel his energy with me in 5D. I have had doubts about our connection because I’m not sure if all this is in my head or that there is actually a strong undeniable connection there. I have chated with online psychics, even though i am clairvoyant and claircognizant myself. I ordeted a twin flame confirmation reading, and even though it says that he is, i still had doubt that it’s all in my head. But after the releasing ceremony, i know our connection is undeniable. I feel at peace when his memories cross my mind. I no longer look into his social media and have even unfollowed him. There is no jealousy anymore, no pain, not thinking I’m unworthy because he is choosing better, prettier, younger…

All i feel now is pure unconditional love. When i pray (talk to the Source), i communicate with my twin in 5D to heal himself, to find love within so that he can ascend, but i also understand that this is his own journey and he needs to walk his path. I am now focused on my self love and healing, and have noticed a lot of things manifesting for me without any effort from my side.

Sometimes doubt creeps back, and i think that maybe he isn’t my twin because in reality, he became a complete stranger to me, he had hurt my feelings. But i also know that our connection is Divinely protected. He may not realise it becasue he isnt ready and I have accepted this and surrendered myself completely to the Source.

Thank you for reading a brief summary of my journey thus far. I send you healing and light in your times of doubt, i know that it isn’t easy…I still have my nights when my heart physically hurts…

The mind is a powerful tool, choose love and light always and it makes our journey a little softer.

[TwinFlameCollective]

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[eunichick]

Wow. @Sammyjoe, thank you for sharing your story. I can empathise with your rollercoaster of emotions. I’m glad I found this platform too; reading stories like yours gives me hope, and helps me understand the connection that my TF and I share. It is so courageous of you to release your TF; I wish I had the strength to do the same with mine.

I sometimes wonder how can a connection so true and pure be also so painful and tormenting. But then I remind myself that I have my own path and healing to complete. And what you said is true: If we are truly meant to be together, nothing can keep us apart. Everything happens for a reason, and I hope that we all will, someday in the future, reach the point when we get to that “ah ha” moment. And understand why all these situations had to unfold the way they had to.

Sending you love, strength and warm hugs. Know you are not alone in your journey

[Scorpio]

Thank you for sharing your story @Sammyjoe.

It’s a great example of things being done the right way.

Too many times I’ve read about people attempting to cut ties or cords with their twin flame, when in reality, letting go or releasing them is all that is required.

We relinquish all of our fears and emotions to God/the Source/the Universe. We accept that the world is beyond our control. Nor would we desire to control even if could have it.

It is the ultimate form of surrender.

It’s scary. Terrifying even. But it is liberating!

I know it wasn’t simple or easy @Sammyjoe, but you made the right decision!

[Cassady]

Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and detailed account of your journey @Sammyjoe. Your story really touched me, especially how you’ve transformed intense pain into peace and understanding.

What you’ve done - releasing your twin flame with intention and ceremony - shows remarkable wisdom.

The shift you describe from checking social media and feeling triggered to experiencing unconditional love is exactly what healthy surrender looks like. It’s not about cutting cords or trying to sever the connection (which isn’t possible with true twins), but about letting go of attachment to outcomes and control.

The doubt you mention is completely normal.

Many of us go through periods of questioning whether it’s “all in our heads” even after profound experiences and undeniable synchronicities. The fact that you can now look back on painful moments with love and understanding, rather than bitterness, suggests you’re seeing things from a higher perspective.

I appreciate how you noted that while you pray for his healing and ascension, you understand it’s his journey to walk. That’s such an important distinction - we can hold space and send love without trying to force or fix anything.

Your description of the physical heart pain resonates deeply. These connections affect us on every level - mental, emotional, spiritual and physical. But as you’ve discovered, when we truly surrender and focus on our own healing, things start flowing more naturally.

The way you described your releasing ceremony under the snow moon was beautiful. Creating sacred space for letting go can be so powerful. It’s not about forgetting or dismissing the connection, but transforming how we relate to it.

I see so much growth in your story - from the initial magnetic pull, through the cycles of connection/disconnection, to this place of genuine peace and self-focus. While doubt may still visit sometimes, your core knowing seems clear and grounded.

Keep following your intuition and nurturing that self-love. Your journey demonstrates how we can honor these profound soul connections while still choosing our own healing and growth.

Sending you continued strength and light as you walk this path. Thank you again for sharing your wisdom with our community.

[Sammyjoe]

Thank you @Cassady for your kind words. I was able to share my story after releasing my twin. It was painful to do so before, even though i wanted to. I realise that when i was typing out, it came from a place of love, and i am so grateful for this experience. Sending you lots of love and light

[MrsG]

@Sammyjoe

Understanding that he is on his own parh and that if we aee truly meant to be, then nothing can keep us apart. And even though we are apart in our 3D realm, i feel his energy with me in 5D. I have had doubts about our connection because I’m not sure if all this is in my head or that there is actually a strong undeniable connection there. I have chated with online psychics, even though i am clairvoyant and claircognizant myself. I ordeted a twin flame confirmation reading, and even though it says that he is, i still had doubt that it’s all in my head. But after the releasing ceremony, i know our connection is undeniable. I feel at peace when his memories cross my mind. I no longer look into his social media and have even unfollowed him. There is no jealousy anymore, no pain, not thinking I’m unworthy

Thank you for sharing your story. This is so amazing that you have gotten to this point of releasing your twin and trusting the journey…I think this is the goal for all of us who are in the separation phase. I can relate to what you are saying and wish I could get there myself. Releasing your twin and trusting the process is so hard so kudos to you for getting there! I totally get what you are saying about questioning if this is just in your head or this connection is really real, I’ve been there….I go through moments of peace of trusting the universe and days where I question everything. I need to really stop looking at my twin’s social media so thank you for the reminder. You are totally right…if we are truly meant to be with our twin then “nothing will keep us apart.” I really needed to hear this today, so thank you. Wishing you all the best

[Numpting]

@Sammyjoe

I realise that when i was typing out, it came from a place of love, and i am so grateful for this experience.

It’s ~beautiful~ to see how your healing journey has unfolded, Sammyjoe. There’s such ~profound wisdom~ in recognizing that true sharing can only happen when we’ve created enough space within ourselves. The shift from pain to love is ~magical~ in how it transforms not just our feelings, but our entire ability to communicate about our experiences.

When we share from a place of ~attachment~, our words carry the weight of our unresolved emotions. But when we share from a place of ~love and release~, as you have, there’s a lightness and clarity that touches everyone who reads it.

Your gratitude for this ~sacred journey~ radiates through your words. It reminds us that even the most challenging connections can be our greatest teachers when we ~surrender~ to their lessons rather than fighting against them.

Sending ~ripples of light~ back to you on your continued path.

[Sammyjoe]

@Numpting thank you for your kind words and acknowledging my emotions. It has been a difficult, but profound journey thus far. Sending light and love to you

[Willow]

I found that releasing my twin intensified the physical symptoms at first, as if my body resisted letting go, but pushing through that resistance finally broke the cycle of obsession and brought real peace. Sometimes what feels like divine intervention pulling us back together might just be our own attachment creating those synchronicities and physical symptoms. Learning to sit with that uncomfortable truth was the hardest but most healing part of my journey.

[Harmony]

After letting go of my twin flame, creative passions I hadn’t touched in forever started calling to me. All that emotional energy I’d poured into our connection transformed into this artistic awakening. This creative renaissance didn’t just help me heal; it woke up these sleeping parts of myself, helping me fall back in love with who I really am. <3

[Old_Aspects]

When I finally let go of my twin flame, I noticed something tender happening in my dreamscape. Those intense dreams, heavy with our shared pain and unfinished stories, gradually softened into whispers of peace. My heart aches with understanding for anyone going through this journey, because I’ve learned that true release touches us in the deepest places of our unconscious mind, bringing forth new wisdom and healing when we’re ready to receive it.

[YourTFisHere]

When we truly release our twin flame, life opens up with new clarity and inner peace. The process teaches us to trust ourselves and honor our journey, even when doubts surface.

[love_wins_always]

Try focusing on the physical sensations during release. When I finally let my twin go, I noticed my chest literally felt lighter, like someone had removed a weight I didn’t know was there, and that physical relief helped confirm I was on the right path.

[Pixyla]

I’ve learned true release isn’t about ceremonies or specific rituals.

It’s that quiet moment when you suddenly realize you’re no longer checking their social media or feeling that familiar ache. Instead of forcing that moment, it simply arrives when you’ve genuinely done the inner work of loving yourself first.

[Sylvenne]

You know what’s crazy? Sometimes I think the universe has a sick sense of humor making us fall so deeply for someone who seems programmed to trigger every wound we’ve got. But releasing my twin taught me something unexpected - it wasn’t about letting go of them, but letting go of this desperate need to make sense of everything. When I finally stopped trying to decode every sign and synchronicity, stopped obsessing over whether they were ‘the one’ or if I was just delusional, that’s when I actually started feeling that peace you’re describing. The real transformation happened when I realized that whether they’re my twin flame or not doesn’t actually matter - what matters is how this connection pushed me to finally face my own shadows and learn to love myself through all the messy parts.

[love_struck_dreamer]

I’m worried if I let go it will never feel the same again…

[Spiritual_Wedding]

That moment when you truly release them… it’s like your whole body exhales a breath you didn’t know you were holding… I remember doing my own release ritual under a full moon, and something unexpected happened my chronic shoulder tension just dissolved. The physical symptoms of holding on are so real… and when they finally lift, it feels like confirmation from the universe that you’re on the right path… Sometimes our bodies know we’ve let go before our minds catch up…

[BrokenCordsRomarin]

That moment when you finally release them and the peace washes over you like a wave… it’s almost surreal how the desperate need to check their social media just… dissolves.

[missmoon]

After releasing my twin flame (a decision that took years to finally make) I discovered a newfound ability to set boundaries in other areas of my life (funny how that works, right?).