My twin and I have been in separation since June 2024 and we have been in no contact since December 2024. We have known each other for about 3 years and are both married to other people and each have children. When we first met, we had an intense connection immediately. We finally discussed our strong connection in April and talked on the phone for 4 hours. Then we began talking constantly. In December, his wife noticed our phone calls and read some messages we sent and she told him to stop talking to me, so we have been in no contact since then.
Last week I was feeling so unsure and upset about all this and asking God why my twin was sent to me when we are already married with children because it is so complicated. How can I love someone so much when Iām already in a committed relationship with someone else?? I told myself I would focus on my marriage and try to make things work for the children but I literally canāt stop thinking about my TF. Iāve also been getting so many signs that point to my twin. I saw his doppelgƤnger again on Sunday and then on Tuesday, I had this crazy vivid dream that I was with my twin in person and it felt so real.
Then I saw my TF at a restaurant. We have lived in the same city for 2 years and we have never run into each other, so I was definitely surprised to see him. During one of the tarot readings, Danielle told me that my twin and I would be seeing each other soon and that it would be a surprise. I was definitely surprised to see him even though when I walked in the restaurant, I had this weird feeling that I would be seeing him there. 10 minutes after my family and I sat down for dinner, I thought I saw his wife out of the corner of my eye. She took one look at me and left the restaurant. Then I looked on the other side of me and my twin was literally 2 feet away from me with his back turned. He was trying to get his daughter to leave the restaurant since his wife basically ran out after she saw me. My chair was turned facing the other way and I froze. I wanted to get up and say hi but I couldnāt move. Then I saw him walking out of the restaurant. I am still in shock and cant believe that I finally saw him in person even if it was the back of his head.
After I saw him, I was hoping he would contact me but we are still in no contact. I feel so heartbrokenā¦I just wish I could talk to him. No contact is so hard bc I literally cannot stop thinking about him and I keep getting signs of him everywhere. Iām doing everything to āwork on myselfā but I feel like nothing seems to help me stop thinking of my TF. One day Iām at peace and the next day Iām a mess.
How do you deal with the separation / no contact phase?? This is so hard.
Oh my gosh, I totally understand that frozen feeling!
I encountered my twin flame at Target after six months of no contact, and I couldnāt move either. My heart was racing! In my honest opinion, these random encounters seem to happen right when weāre finally getting our lives back in balance, almost like the universe is testing us. The fact that his wife left him indicates that the energy between you two is still incredibly intense (Iāve experienced something similar with my twin flameās spouse).
Sometimes, just being in the same space for a moment is all we really need right now. Keep being yourself and trust that gut feeling that told you he would be there. Those vibes never lie, for real!
I had a similar frozen moment when I unexpectedly saw my twin at a coffee shop last year. What struck me most was how my body physically couldnāt move while my heart felt like it was going to burst out of my chest, and later I realized that intense physical reaction was actually protecting us both from disrupting each otherās current paths.
I understand the mix of emotions youāre feeling after seeing your twin flame unexpectedly after such a long separation. These encounters can really shake us up and often mark significant moments in our journey.
When we unexpectedly meet our twin flames, itās best not to overthink or try to plan anything. Just try to stay present in the moment and keep your energy balanced. This journey is about our souls, not about creating perfect scenarios.
Itās easier done than said. I know. Weāre all here for you, Iām sure.
The unpredictability of these encounters can be overwhelming. Sometimes we just need to get comfortable with not knowing whatās next and let go of our expectations about how things āshouldā be.
I canāt believe I froze, but when I saw him, it did make me realize that my feelings for him have only gotten stronger with time and separation. I feel like since I saw him we have been communicating telepathically and through dreams. I also realized the reason we stopped talking was because his wife told us to stop talking not because anything was wrong with our connection. I woke up one day and told myself Iām not going to let his wife tell me that I cannot talk to him anymore. I got the courage to send him a āwork relatedā email and he wrote back. Since the middle of February, weāve been communicating through email and a little bit through text. Iām happy things are moving in the right direction and that we are starting to communicate again!
Yes it is definitely overwhelming. It has been a hard journey but Iām almost at that point of fully letting go. Most days, I do trust the universe and believe that whatever is meant to happen will happen, but I also have many moments of doubt. I still get so many signs from the universe, so that helps me feel like I am on the right track. A few weeks after I saw him, we started communicating again through email and text so Iām so happy to be ātalkingā to my twin again! We do need a phone conversation but I know that will come soon. Iām taking it slow and trying to go with the flow.
I had almost the exact same experience (that frozen feeling hit me hard when I saw my TF at a gas station after 6 months in NC), and what struck me was how his wifeās quick exit actually protected everyone from an awkward situation that wasnāt meant to happen yet (sometimes the universe works through other people to maintain necessary boundaries).
The fact that you sensed him before seeing him (that pre-cognitive buzz is so real) shows your connection is still strong even in separation, but your mutual respect for current circumstances shows where you both are in your growth.
Thank you for your comment @CosmicKeys . Yes Iām glad his wife left immediately because she could have caused a scene if she really wanted to. It was definitely an awkward situation since they were going to be seated at the table right next to ours. I am thankful that she reacted in a way that was very mature and respectful. Iām glad we do have mutual respect for each other and our separate lives for now.
āPre cognitive buzzā is so real! you are right it does show how our connection is still strong and reminds me that this is real.
This happened to us again recently. I went to happy hour with friends from work and before happy hour, I had a dream that I told him to go too. Then at the last minute my coworkers changed the location of happy hour. I felt weird like I should be going to the original place because I had a feeling he would be at the original place. later that night, I found out that my twin did go to the original happy hour place. I sent him a message about how we almost went to the same happy hour place that night. He said, āLook at that almost saw you!ā I feel like he got the message about the original happy hour place telepathically from me. So we did talk about meeting at happy hour another time. As much as I do want to see him I feel nervous about seeing him because Iām not sure how I will react. I feel like I might freeze up again because Iām not sure if Iām ready.
OMG, girl, I had almost the same thing happen at a grocery store! That weird psychic knowing theyāre there before you see them is SO REAL!! The frozen-canāt-move feeling is totally normal, it happened to me too and I literally just stood there staring at the cereal boxes while my twin was right behind me!
Itās wild how we can feel their energy even when trying to keep our distance. My heart was pounding out of my chest just in the same building! Trust those gut feelings that told you heād be there our DMs can never hide from us energetically, no matter how hard they try!
I had that same paralyzed feeling when I unexpectedly saw my twin at a store last year, and while it felt frustrating not to speak, I later realized that sometimes our bodies instinctively know when itās not the right moment to interact.
omg i totally get that frozen feeling when i saw my tf at the mall after 8 months separation, i literally couldnāt move either and just watched him walk by, but later realized that sometimes our bodies know better than our minds in those moments and keep us from disrupting each otherās current paths
āThe most beautiful things in life are not things. They are moments.ā - Art Buchwald
I felt that same mix of excitement and heartache seeing my twin flame after months apart. Even briefly, something powerful happens just being in their presence, showing us why this connection means so much despite the complications.
When I saw my twin at a cafe after 6 months of no contact, breathing the same air felt significant. And like you, I couldnāt move - itās like your body knows what to do better than your mind in those moments.
The complicated family dynamics make everything harder. I remember feeling so guilty about the joy of these chance encounters while trying to honor my commitments. But Iāve learned that these feelings donāt make us bad people - theyāre just part of this complex journey.
Something that helped me was accepting that sometimes these brief encounters are all weāre meant to have in certain phases. They show us the connection is real without disrupting the current path weāre walking.
