I want to ask you if you could end the telepatic connection with your twin flame because of his behavior. He is using the telepathy to consciously hurt me, and when he despite my progress and healing can hurt me (as he can sense my unhealed stuff), I can feel mainly his hurt too. So intense and devastating. I can feel his decision to stay away from me by hurting me, i focus on myself and have already decided to let him go, but even the volume of telepathy has decreased, it is still there. Have you experiences the same? Tell me what can I do. Thank you.
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Iâm really sorry youâre going through this painful experience. What youâre describing is unfortunately something many of us face during challenging phases.
First, I want to validate that your pain is real.
When your twin consciously directs hurtful energy your way, especially when they can sense your vulnerabilities, it creates a particularly difficult situation. The fact that you can also feel their hurt compounds everything.
The twin flame connection operates at a soul level, which makes completely shutting off telepathy challenging. But you absolutely can reduce its impact and protect your energy:
Hereâs what might help:
- Energy boundaries: Visualize a protective shield around your energy field that filters communications. Intend that only loving, supportive energy can pass through.
- Direct communication: Speaking to their higher self (not their ego) can be effective. Simply state: âI need space from this telepathic connection. I ask that you respect my boundaries.â
- Energy clearing: Daily practices to clear your field help reduce the telepathic volume. Salt baths, sage/palo santo, or visualizing your energy being cleansed can all help.
- Focus redirection: When you notice telepathic contact, consciously redirect your attention elsewhere. This takes practice but becomes more effective over time.
- Heart chakra work: Since twins share a heart connection, working specifically with this energy center can help regulate the intensity.
The decrease in volume youâve already noticed is a positive sign! It shows your intention to create more energetic autonomy is working. This often happens in phases rather than all at once.
Your twinâs hurtful behavior likely stems from their own unhealed wounds. This doesnât excuse it, but understanding this can help you detach from taking it personally.
Thereâs an off switch to this thing?
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I totally understand what youâre going through with this painful telepathic connection. Iâve been there myself, and it can be incredibly overwhelming when your twin flame uses that connection to hurt you.
I found that managing energy is the key here. These telepathic connections reflect our deeper energetic patterns, especially those rooted in fear or control that we need to address.
When I wanted to reduce or shut off my connection, I had to stop focusing externally and turn inward instead. I realized I was pouring so much of my attention into my twin flame and our telepathic interactions that I was actually feeding the very connection I wanted to diminish.
Meditation became my lifeline during this process. It helped me shift focus away from my mindâs constant chatter about my twin flame and toward my soulâs more subtle energy, which requires attention free from mental distractions. You donât need to violently sever the connection - itâs about transforming and balancing the energies by focusing on your own healing journey. These steps helped me reduce the telepathic noise and find more peace. I hope they can do the same for you.
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OMG, I totally found relief by journaling all those painful telepathic messages and then BURNING THE PAGES while visualizing the smoke carrying away our unhealthy connection!! I noticed the telepathy volume dropped DRAMATICALLY after my third burning ritual, and now I only receive the loving vibrations instead of the hurtful ones itâs like I installed a cosmic filter that only lets the good stuff through!!!
Our telepathy with him ended in an instant. We met in the same city, and at that time he already had a karmic girlfriend less than a year. This girl lives in another country. As he told me in our conversations, he doesnât want to leave his home, but she just canât move, so âhe has toâ. I think it was just the voice of profit speaking in him, because there are many people who want to leave our country, thinking that âsomewhereâ there will be better and richer.
For over a year, while he was thinking to leave or not to leave, I tried to get in touch with him, confessed my feelings. At first he even started to be interested, we kissed a few times, had some time together, but then he went into his ârunnerâ mode. After six months, I switched on the ârunnerâ mode too, because it became unbearably painful to see that he decided to do nothing and lay low. All this year he saw how hard it was for me to ignore my feelings and how sincere my heart was, so he tried to âbe friendsâ but it only made me feel worse.
He was saying âIf it wasnât for the relationship with her, of course we could have tried itâŚâ.
This month I found out that he silently moved in with her. Or rather, I felt it first by my soul, it was a painful shock, and a few days later our mutual friend informed me.
He didnât even say goodbye to me. But it doesnât matter. After that, he could no longer be with me. There were a few attempts at some external telepathic activity, which I cut off. No activity since then. Telepathy burns out when what has happened can no longer be matched with your boundaries and sense of self-respect. Just when you feel itâs no return.
This is not the way to do it with me. This person no longer exists for me. I donât care is it really TF or not. I got my inner union and thatâs ok. And Iâm beginning to realise how wonderful it is that heâs finally gone and my torment is over. Now heâs on his own and Iâve had some great spiritual experience (and the nervous system that needs to be healed after that).
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There was a point when my twin deliberately weaponized our telepathic connection, I found peace not by trying to shut it off, but by practicing radical acceptance acknowledging each painful intrusion with âI see you, but I donât choose youâ which gradually transformed our connection from a battlefield into background noise that no longer demanded my emotional energy.
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