I don’t want to be blunt (and I’ll try to keep this PG), but the sexual frustration suddenly showing up in my twin flame separation is… intense.
I feel like I’m about to… just by thinking about them.
I’m like constantly ACHING for them 24/7. My body is on fire whenever we’re near each other, and I can sense the same desire in them. We’ve had chances to take things further, but something always holds us back. I wonder if we’re both afraid of the intensity or if there’s a deeper reason for our hesitation. The frustration is real, and it’s affecting other aspects of our relationship. We seem to be stuck in this push-pull dynamic, unable to find balance. I’m starting to worry that resisting our physical connection might create negative energy in our journey.
Has anyone else had this? What do I do? Is it a good sign?
You have a “blind spot”. There is something you are not “seeing”.
This is where shadow work comes into play. There is something that is affecting your connection that you are not consciously aware of. Explore this further through introspection or journaling to find the root cause!
Remember, “sexual shadows” are real, and they can result in either suppression, or over-indulgence of sexual energy.
I know this is probably part of the separation tasks we have to deal with and it’s probably related to my past but the knowing doesn’t make it any easier!
Oh my gosh, I know EXACTLY what you’re talking about. I’m almost 3 months into full on engaging in daily telepathic sex with my Twin. It does feel impossible to resist. I made a thread about it the other day.
You may be feeling a calling to enter this kind of situation as well, as I’ve grown more in the past 2.5 months than the past 12. In my case, I believe I was in part called to it because my TF is extremely avoidant, and reaching this kind of intimacy was the only way to reach his heart and get him to FEEL what the truth of our connection is.
It took a lot of practice and mental work to get to a daily interaction. No idea if it would be the same for anyone else
I get it. I have been exactly there It’s like our bodies have a mind of their own sometimes, right? There are maaaany great parts about the TF journey and in the bedroom is a whole other thing.
We’re talking earth-shattering sex here, but sometimes, in separation, that means extended periods of celibacy. Not because you NEED to, just because nothing else compares or can scratch that itch any more.
The sexual tension builds precisely because it’s trying to show you something important. Rather than seeing it as frustration, view it as sacred energy revealing where healing needs to happen.
While it’s tempting to act on those urges, it’s important to approach this aspect of your journey mindfully. Easier said than done. I know. I think a lot of us have been there.
Could be a great time to look into tantric practices.
Right there with you. It comes and goes sometimes, seems to happen more when they think of me or I think of them. I did get a weird message from them about it once so I think they know.
