My DM uses manifestation and the Law of Attraction a lot. Our first conversation was about The Secret. Now, during separation, I keep feeling weird energies and pulls, and I think he’s trying to manifest me back into his life, although I don’t know if he even means to do it or not. Maybe I should reach out.
I’ve read that twin flames are more capable of manifestation than usual because of our spiritual attunement. I think normally, we think about that from the chaser’s viewpoint, but that would be the same for the runners, too, I would imagine. Maybe we’re more attuned to noticing coincidences when actively looking for them. Still, there’s this undeniable feeling I can’t shake like a constant pull toward him but it’s coming from him.
What you’re describing - that magnetic pull feeling - often happens when twin flames are energetically reaching out, whether they mean to or not. Whether they’re even conscious of it or not.
While you’re likely picking up on their energy, let your inner guidance (not just the external signs) direct any decisions about making contact.
The “runner” twin can manifest as powerfully as the “chaser,” sometimes more so since their energy isn’t clouded by conscious effort.
Their subconscious desires can create strong pulls even when they’re not trying.
Oh, this can go far beyond typical manifestation practices, and the signs can be as unique as the journey itself. But if I had to suggest some of the common ones:
Sudden overwhelming thoughts about them that feel different from regular missing them
Unexpected physical sensations like heart flutters or warmth, especially in the chest area
Feeling their emotional state even when apart
Vivid dreams or astral encounters
Strong urges to contact them that feel like they’re “not yours”
Seeing repeated numbers, especially 11:11, more frequently
Their name or references to them showing up randomly
The twin flame bond naturally amplifies manifestation abilities because you share an energy field. This means your divine masculine’s focus on manifesting could definitely be affecting you (whether he’s consciously trying to or not).
Before reaching out, check in with yourself about whether this pull aligns with your highest good. Sometimes, these energetic pulls are part of the purging and healing process rather than a sign to reunite physically.
Are you in a stable emotional place?
Have core issues that led to separation been addressed?
Is this pull coming from a place of wholeness rather than need?
There’s no universal “right” answer - trust your inner guidance while remaining grounded in your own well-being. The shared manifestation ability between twins is powerful, but timing and inner work are still key factors in physical reunion.
If you’re feeling those intense, energetic pulls, it’s likely your twin flame is thinking of you strongly.
Trust your intuition - it might be worth exploring if you feel compelled to reach out. However, remember that manifestation works both ways so be mindful of what energy you’re putting out there too. Ultimately, the choice to reconnect should come from a place of genuine readiness, not just because you think they’re trying to manifest you back.
I think this keeps happening to me. They’re pulling but then when I reach out they ask why I’m reaching out. Hello, it’s YOUR idea. I understand but that doesn’t make it less frustrating.
The subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways in which our twins may be reaching out across the ethers can look like all sorts of different things, I think. Your list is probably a good starting point, though.
I like your advice on not immediately reaching out. Premature reunions can ultimately set back the healing process.
I’ve felt those same intense pulls and energies during separation, and while it’s tempting to reach out, trusting the journey and focusing on my own growth ultimately brought us back together in divine timing.
It’s like an invisible tether that keeps us connected, even when we’re apart, and sometimes he tugs on it without meaning to because I know he’s not quite there yet.
My DM was very into the LoA, too, so I’d 100% feel his pull and know instantly that he was doing it. After the first couple of attempts I messaged but now I think I’m able to see it as background noise. He wants to manifest me but I know he’s not quite ready for me to reach out just because of that so I let him carry on.
Hey, I totally get what you’re feeling. I’ve had similar experiences where I swear my twin was pulling me energetically, even when we weren’t talking. It’s like this weird magnetic force you can’t explain. Maybe try grounding yourself and see if you can differentiate between your own desires and what might be coming from him - it helped me figure out what was really going on.
The battle within rages as we transform. Those needing to embrace their inner warrior find strength rising - setting boundaries, pursuing passions, and facing reality head-on. The chaos and confusion give way to clarity and confidence.
Meanwhile, those cultivating their nurturing side discover a softening - selflessness blooming, kindness flowing more freely. It’s like light and shadow moving, each of us finding balance in our own way. Some days, I feel invincible, others vulnerable.
But through it all, I sense we’re becoming more whole, more authentically ourselves. The journey’s messy and beautiful, terrifying and exhilarating. We’re shedding old skins, emerging changed. And somehow, in all this upheaval, I feel more deeply connected to my true self than ever before.
On some level, they are ALWAYS going to try and manifest you (whether through active LoA practice or not), so you can always feel that pull if you go looking for it. Some of the advice here is really good, though, pay attention to your own readiness before reaching out.
Same here. It’s one of the biggest conundrums about this journey as one day I can be kicking ass feeling on top of the world then the next woeful, doubtful and grumpy. I take it all in my stride as all one can do is just accept it and work around or with it.
I think they start manifesting you before you ever physically meet (just as you’re probably manifesting them). So the signs that they want to manifest you is probably the same as the signs you have a TF out there to begin with. One and the same.