Totally lost without her

I think I met my twin flame ten years ago (did not know anything about twin flames until about a month ago) at least that is what a physic said.

My twin got mad 4 months ago and does not want to ever talk or see me again. She has blocked all forms of communication. I ran into her by mistake a week ago and she would not even look at me.

I am hurt, lost, and feel like there is no need to go on. I am trying by not hearing from her over Thanksgiving has scattered my heart even more.

I don’t know how to deal with this. HELP.

How do I know if she is my twin flame?

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What you’re feeling isn’t just regular heartbreak - it’s actually your shared energy being activated.

Right now your energy is intensely pushing toward her, which paradoxically causes her to pull away. Learning to center and balance your own energy is what will naturally draw her back.

She’s showing you every trauma you need to work on. This path is not for the light hearted by any means. The emotional pain is there for a reason. Just about everyone has issues with codependency, childhood and past life traumas, attachment to outcome. The whole point is to become a unified being within instead of seeking externally. You can’t have a union with another until you’re both whole.

Twin flame connections aren’t validated by psychics but by the profound internal changes they create. Your intense pain suggests a deep soul connection, but focus now on your own healing and growth rather than external validation or reconnection.

Your heart chakra seems deeply affected by this separation. I sense your aura is dimmed and fragmented, reflecting the emotional turmoil you’re experiencing.

I’ve been there, and the silence is excruciating (especially during holidays). While you can’t force contact, focus on healing yourself and trusting the connection (easier said than done, I know). Your energy shift may naturally draw her back when the time is right.

Your twin flame is actually an alien in disguise, sent to Earth to study human emotions! Okay, not really, but it sure feels that way sometimes when they act so cold and distant. The more you obsess and chase, the further they run - try redirecting that energy into self-love and personal growth instead, and you may be surprised how it shifts the dynamic.

Hey there, I totally get how you’re feeling. I went through something similar with my TF and the silence was excruciating. Obsessing over whether they’re your “real” twin flame isn’t helpful - what matters is how you feel and grow from the connection.

My advice? Focus on healing yourself and moving forward, twin flame or not. The universe has a way of bringing people back around if they’re meant to be in your life.

I know just how that feels… it will get easier.