Hey everyone, I’m not quite sure what to make of this.
If my twin just reaches out out of the blue (like after months of running) how the hell should I handle that? Part of me wants to jump right back in. This is it, now they’ve finally figured it out and we’re ready!
Another part is scared of getting hurt again or (worse) getting my hopes up when they’re not ready yet.
Has anyone been through this? How did you balance protecting yourself while still being open to reconnecting?
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Hey there, I totally how you’re feeling here.
When my twin reached out after months of silence, I took it very slow and set clear boundaries - it helped us rebuild trust gradually without rushing into old patterns.
I know the urge is to move fast. It can be hard to fight but you don’t want to spook them when you’re so close…
Have you considered that this sudden reach-out might be a test, gauging your growth during the separation? They wouldn’t be doing it intentionally but subconsciously probing.
Perhaps the key is to approach it with detached compassion - acknowledging the connection without expectations - allowing divine timing to unfold naturally while protecting your own energy.
We’ll hopefully listening to the advice you’re getting here! Reaching back out is fine. It’s good. As long as you know yourself to take it slow and careful.
When my twin reached out after months apart, I felt that same mix of excitement and fear. I chose to respond with openness but they quickly went dark again. I wish I had taken things slower back then.
It might depend on how they return to you. It might happen again, it could even trigger a reversal of the runner/chaser roles and maybe you’ll start running.
I think you are being smart in asking. Just take it slow and see how it unfolds without putting too much emotional energy in it.
Wishing you both the best. This could be it!
This could be all the hard work you’ve been doing coming to a close but I agree with everyone else. Take it slow and easy. Maybe consider suggesting a casual meetup first?
When my twin reached out unexpectedly, I focused on balancing my chakras before responding. I found that cleansing my aura and aligning my energy centers helped me approach the situation with clarity and protection.
Consider using rose quartz to open your heart chakra while shielding your solar plexus - this can help you remain open to love while maintaining healthy boundaries.
Other than that… trust your intuition. It will know if this is really the time or not.