Looking back on my journey so far, I’ve realized that my failed soul connections weren’t just random heartbreaks but missed opportunities for growth and healing. The soul contract we share on the twin flame journey means both of us need to do the work.
Now, I’m determined to honor these soul contracts, no matter how challenging, because I’ve tasted the bitterness of regret. I’m ready for the sweetness of true connection and personal evolution.
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Sometimes, I feel that I’m the one doing all the work while my runner has it easy, but looking back, I can see they were working on their part of the contract, too. I just couldn’t see it.
As long as we do our side, it’ll get there. 
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Well we sure didn’t sign a contract for that.
I think they just focus on different things early in the journey.
We have a predetermined agreement to tackle the raw, messy process of growth.
The failed connections and heartbreaks along the way weren’t wasted - they taught me so much about myself and what I truly need in a relationship.
I’ve realized that soul contracts in twin flame connections aren’t just about spiritual growth - they’re also about real-world actions and choices.
Honoring our contract meant finally facing my fear of vulnerability and opening up to my twin, even when it felt terrifying. It also pushed me to make the hard changes in my career and lifestyle I’d avoided for years.
Challenging but, I’ve found that embracing these contracts leads to profound healing and transformation.
I’ve learnt this the hard way over the last year. I awakened one year ago after 16 years of separation and it turned my life upside down and inside out. Inner messages, signs etc have been screaming at me to relocate and… I don’t want to but the Universe is having none of that and incrementally I have watched my entire life be torn apart in so many odd ways to push me to relocate. The longer I resisted, the more crumbled. I have surrendered and will be relocating in the new year not because I want to, but I have to because to continue in my current locale will be guaranteed misery, in denial of my Truth as relocating is a crucial step I need to take to move further towards reunion with my twin with whom I have yet to re-establish 3D contact - I hasten to add in 5D, we’re very much reunited.
Have you considered that your soul contracts might be more flexible than you think? Could it be that the true purpose of these connections is to teach us self-acceptance rather than constant self-improvement? What if the “work” you must do isn’t about fixing yourself but learning to love yourself unconditionally?
What if honoring your soul contract means trusting your intuition and following your heart, even when it leads you in unexpected directions?
Man, I’ve been carrying this weight for so long, feeling like everything’s on my shoulders. The moment I stopped doing this and started to just work on myself, they were the ones who started to chase me. Now, they can put in some effort.
Sometimes, you’ll feel an instant, deep connection with certain people because they’re part of your soul family (but not your twin flame) - like you’ve known them forever.
They can really help on the twin flame path.
The way I understand this is that both twin flames agree to go through this process before we arrive in this lifetime.
Whatever caused me to sign up for this process? It must be incredible. 
I agree with this. As someone who knows a person who deals with the soul contract spirits or whatever they are, we can change the contracts if we so choose. We can also cut negative cords from people and keep the good ones, essentially erasing the toxic patterns. The work has to be done both spiritually and on the 3D levels for the highest good of all involved.