I am deeply and consciously connected with my twinflame. I can feel his very emotions and he mines, we have telepathy in real time, 24/7. But he is mean to me, I have this feeling of doubting and humiliating of the connection from his side, I have uncomfortable pressure in my throat and feel often sharp pain in both sides from my heart a feel confused. Have you experienced the same? Can you give me some advice how to handle this? Thank you
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The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful.
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This deep telepathic bond means you’re picking up on both his energy and your own insecurities being reflected back.
Your physical symptoms - throat pressure and heart pain - suggest blocked emotional energy that needs release. While the connection feels painful now, it’s bringing up exactly what needs healing. Start by showing compassion to the parts of yourself that feel doubted.
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~Oh, honey~, I’ve been there, too. Those uncomfortable feelings and doubts are often just our own inner wounds mirrored back to us through our twin. Try focusing on self-love and healing your own heart first—as you do that, you may find your connection naturally becomes more harmonious and loving.
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Trust that this discomfort is shaping you both, removing doubts to reveal the true beauty of your bond.
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Thank you all for your answers. Thanks to that I was able to process some emotional blocks just to let block lying on my sacral area grow more urgent. I can feel that our connection through the time has become more harmonious than it was. But there is still this unshakeable feeling that something is going to happen and I am not comfortable with that, maybe thats why I can feel these blocks of energy. I know that I must let go of control and just let happen what needs to happen.
My twin flame was actually mirroring parts of myself I needed to work on - it wasn’t about them being mean but about me learning to love myself more fully. Once I started focusing on self-love and healing my insecurities, our connection improved dramatically.
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If you’re feeling doubted and humiliated, your twin is likely mirroring your own self-doubt and insecurities. I experienced similar throat pressure and heart pain when my twin was struggling with accepting our connection.
The connection isn’t meant to be comfortable; it’s designed to push you both towards growth and self-improvement.
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Have you considered that the uncomfortable sensations you’re feeling might be your own doubts and fears being reflected back to you through the connection, rather than coming directly from your twin flame?
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Yes, I think that there can be my insecurities and doubts because of his refusing behavior. Because some days I can sense this deep connection and I can’t understand why he can’t. I have already seen some mirrored stuff from my past traumas that I have worked through, finally able to saw the lies I believed. And that sharp pain I know is coming from him, he can’t accept the connection and I sense that he can be maybe angry, that I can be the cause why he can just put this craziness behind his back and live on by himself.
Wow, I understand those throat chakra blockages and heart pains - they were very intense for me, too, when my twin was in denial, but sending them lots of love energy through meditation helped.
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The throat pressure and heart pain often signaled unspoken truths or emotions I needed to address within myself.
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I discovered that penning 
letters I never send is therapeutic. Expressing my 
feelings on paper, even if it seems 
one-sided, brings 
clarity and :healing: soothes the soul.
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Sometimes, creating art or music that reflects what I’m feeling with my twin flame helps me process the intensity of the connection. But is it truly the creation itself that brings clarity, or the act of pouring our shared energy into something tangible?
The negative feelings and pain you’re experiencing are actually showing you areas within yourself that need attention and healing.
When your twin flame acts mean or doubtful, they’re reflecting back your own deep-seated insecurities or self-judgment. The throat pressure suggests blocked communication - perhaps difficulty expressing your truth or standing up for yourself. The heart pain points to emotional wounds around self-worth and acceptance.
This mirroring isn’t happening to hurt you - it’s bringing these issues to the surface so you can address them.
- Where do you doubt or criticize yourself?
- What parts of yourself do you have trouble accepting?
- Are there times you hold back from speaking your truth?
We are living together right now. It’s been over two years of on again off again but I think this time he won’t run. He gets what I consider mean sometimes. Usually instantly sorry but that doesn’t undo what comes out of his mouth. I’ve meditated and prayed about it a lot. I’m convinced its just him still working through his shit. I decided to just try to sit back and wait for him to catch up. I truly believe he will and yours will too.
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