I met my DM at 19 and have been in separation for 2 1/2 years now, with brief periods of contact every 6 to 12 months that last a few weeks before the cycle starts again.
The separation periods can feel endless, but I’ve learned that these quiet times matter as much as the moments of connection. Trust that things unfold as they should, even when the path feels uncertain.
I might have the record for the longest separation here.
We get back together a lot but always in short bursts. It’s becoming like a normal pattern we both just know it’s going to happen every time.
My longest separation was 9 years, with a similar pattern to yours of brief connections followed by longer silences.
I wasted a lot of that time by not really understanding what it was I was supposed to do.
I understand you @FleksMeks. I still don’t know what I’m doing or what I’m actually suppose to do/feel some days
I’ve been separated from my twin for 6 years now, with our pattern being about 2-3 months of intense connection followed by 8-12 months of complete silence.