I’m not sure I buy into the idea that runners suddenly become “ready” to reunite in one moment. Is it more of a gradual process, or is there some single revelation that will finally make them understand?
I know I cannot force it; I can only work on my own healing, but I wonder if there is more we can do to help them.
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A swift kick to the butt?
The biggest (and hardest) thing is to stop fixating on your twin’s return and instead work on becoming your best self. That’s when things started to change in my connection.
You know… I’ve realized that waiting for a runner to suddenly “wake up” is like watching paint dry…
I think you are right. It’s far more of a gradual process, with little moments of clarity building up over time.
Sometimes, it can be an individual moment, but that moment is different for everyone.
It could be that letting go of expectations can sometimes create the space for them to return when they’re ready is all it takes to trigger their return. Really though, you can’t control their journey - all you can do is work on yourself and trust that if you’re meant to reunite, it will happen in its own time.
IMHO, it’s more of a gradual process, but sometimes a big “aha” moment can speed things up. Different for everyone though.
In my experience as an energy healer, I’ve observed that runners’ readiness to reunite often aligns with a gradual clearing of their lower chakras, particularly the root and sacral.
This process can result in a sudden energetic shift. It can feel like a huge moment of revelation to both the runner and the chaser… but it’s not really sudden. It’s just the result of ongoing work over time finally hitting a boiling point.
While we can’t “force” their journey, maintaining a high vibrational state and regularly cleansing our aura can create a more inviting, energetic space for the runner to return to when ready.
Sometimes, what feels like a setback can actually be a step forward in disguise.
Trust yourself and your journey.
The biggest change I saw was to nurture my artistic pursuits—painting and music—allowing them to grow and give voice to the emotions that words alone could not express.
Something about finally working on my own dreams brought them back.