We want them to come running to us and express every love, sorrow and regret from our time apart.
But maybe the return of the divine masculine isn’t really about physical reunion at all (even though that’s what we tend to fixate on). The journey is about achieving energetic balance within ourselves first, particularly for divine feminines who need to stop chasing and focus inward. When we finally reach that inner harmony, the masculine naturally stops running because there’s nothing left to run from.
The truth is that divine masculines always return energetically once we’ve done our inner work and reached that higher vibration (it’s just physics, really). This journey transcends the physical realm entirely, operating at the soul level where we’re already eternally connected. When we finally grasp that we’re dealing with one soul in two bodies, the question of “return” becomes almost irrelevant because we realize we were never truly separated in the first place.
You’re right that much of this journey is about finding that energetic equilibrium within ourselves first. I’d like to staple that to the forehead of everyone coming in for the first time.
This matters. Too many people try to ignore it and focus on what their twin is (or isn’t) doing.
So many of us (myself included) have spent time fixating on the physical reunion, desperately wanting our counterpart to come running back. It’s completely natural to want that external validation and connection.
It’s also completely slowing things down. It’s a rough Catch-22.
I’ve heard the idea that DM energy operates in cycles. There might well be something to it. It does seem like there are seasons where DMs go through significant internal shifts. Restructuring their understanding of themselves, healing childhood wounds, and questioning their life paths. This internal work often looks like withdrawal or confusion from the outside.
This is probably why we call them “runners” and not “healers”
The point you made about the masculine naturally stopping their running pattern once we’ve done our inner work is spot on. When we heal our own wounds and raise our vibration, we change the entire dynamic. It’s like we’re removing all the triggers that caused them to flee in the first place.
When we truly internalize that understanding, the physical distance becomes less painful because we recognize the eternal connection that exists beyond time and space.
Remember to be gentle with yourself during this process. The twin flame journey challenges our deepest attachments and beliefs about love. Your awareness of the importance of inner work shows you’re moving in a powerful direction.
(Also, what’s up with the videos today? Did we just get a new feature?)
I appreciate how you’re shifting from focusing solely on physical reunion to understanding the deeper energetic work involved.
You’re spot-on about energetic balance being the cornerstone of this experience. When we obsess over physical reunion, we actually feed that push-pull dynamic that keeps separation in place. It’s an interesting paradox - the more we fixate on bringing our twin flame back, the more we energetically push them away.
As @Cassady said, too many of us overlook this and get stuck.
The concept that divine masculines “return” when we’ve balanced our energy is something I see repeatedly in twin flame dynamics. This isn’t about game-playing or manipulation - it’s pure energy physics. When you stop pushing your energy outward (whether through longing, obsessing, or even just constant thoughts about them), you create space for them to be magnetically drawn back.
For anyone else struggling with this concept, I recommend focusing on:
Observing your thoughts about your twin flame without believing them
Recognizing when your energy feels like it’s “pushing outward” and practicing pulling it back
Developing clear boundaries with yourself about how much you’ll allow your mind to focus on the twin flame
Prioritizing your own alignment and balance above any reunion
i had this weird realization last week when i felt my dm’s energy strongly. it wasn’t the usual intense longing, but more like they were already sitting next to me in comfortable silence. it made me understand that maybe ‘return’ isn’t about grand gestures or dramatic reunions at all, but about reaching this quiet place where their energy just naturally flows with mine without all the chaos and resistance.
You know, when I finally stopped waiting for that big dramatic ‘return’ moment and started noticing my DM’s energy in small everyday miracles - like feeling suddenly peaceful during my morning coffee or catching myself smiling for no reason - I saw they’d been returning to me in countless quiet ways all along.
I’m in pending union (he’s literally making moves to uproot his life to be with me) and I can confirm this.
It started with small moments of peace and now I spend most of my days in that space. I am at a level of peace I didn’t think was possible. I realized I finally have a regulated nervous system. When I get disregulated, it’s so simple to come back to center.
The divine masculine energy feels like a guiding presence lately, helping me trust my intuition rather than forcing outcomes. It’s teaching me to embrace the journey rather than chase results.
The divine masculine energy mirrors our inner growth. As I’ve focused on healing myself, I’ve noticed it acting as a transformative force rather than just an ideal to chase.
I’ve noticed that when I stopped obsessing over all the ‘divine masculine/feminine’ labels and just focused on being authentically myself, my twin’s energy naturally felt more balanced and peaceful. The universe has a way of reflecting back whatever internal work we’re doing.
DM energy feels like it’s shifting from that old pattern of running and resistance… to something more like a quiet strength that’s finally ready to stand in its truth… almost like the inner work we’ve all been doing has created this safe space for that energy to just… be… without needing to prove anything or hide anymore…
I’ve noticed that when my DM’s energy feels intense lately, it’s usually reflecting something I need to work on within myself. When I felt them pulling away, it was showing me where I needed to be more grounded and self-assured.
Like, for the collective masculines, or our personal counterparts?
If personal, I felt like my TF had been chasing or rather searching for several days, two weeks ago. It was Eid and I just felt right to leave an anonymous message saying “may your heart always be soft” in a local platform’s profile of them.
I’m not supposed to be found yet. Not now. Not when we blocked each other and having a karmic/soulmate.
I love this. Without it, relationships tend to activate our wounds and create chaos. With it, love can finally flow without the old patterns interfering. This is the rela other side of healing work.
right that much of this journey is about finding that energetic equilibrium within ourselves first. I’d like to staple that to the forehead of everyone coming in for the first time.
