My twin flame runner is so closed off to their higher self and spiritual side that they just roll their eyes at ANY kind of spiritual talk. When do they realize?
What triggers that moment of realization for them? Is it something I can trigger in myself that will help them understand? Has anyone’s runner actually accepted that they are a twin flame?
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Sometimes, the runner realizes before they run. It can be a bit of a shock.
Sometimes, they figure out it when they are already the runner, but that doesn’t mean they’re ready to come back right away. There’s still work to do and you’re not always ready to immediately go back because you don’t know what it will be like.
I think this is probably unique for everyone.
The runner/chaser dynamic can flip. I’ve been there where I thought I was just waiting for my runner to “wake up” and that wait can feel endless.
Looking back I know now that I was the one who needed to actually awaken. I knew the terminology they didn’t but I wasn’t prepared to actually do my own growth and healing which is what really brings them running back.
*The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.*
We have all been there. Sometimes it feels like they’ll never “get it” but their awakening isn’t something we can force; it’s a personal journey they have to take in their own time. The best thing we can do is focus on our growth and healing, trusting that they’ll come to their own realizations when the time is right.
Trust in divine timing.
Is there any chance of your twin flame returning if she got mad and hurt over something that I supposedly said, that I didn’t say.
I have been blocked from any communication or seeing her.
I am not doing so well. Haven’t seen or heard from from ger in over 10 weeks.
Okay, bear with me here. They realize when the chaser stops trying to grasp their energy. With the normal status quo, they have no need to reevaluate anything, but when they sense the void between you, that’s when they’ll start their own journey back to you.
Letting go isn't easy. The same way as them, awakening isn't easy.
Weirdly, we are the ones stopping them from realizing it, but it’s hard to get out of our own way sometimes.
Now, as I continue to surrender, I feel their energy drawing closer. It’s terrifying and exhilarating, like standing on the precipice of a great unknown. I’m learning to accept all parts of myself - the light and the dark - knowing that only then can I truly accept them.
Blocking and separation are normal phases that push both twins to process emotions and do their individual healing work.
Give her space while focusing on your own growth and inner balance, knowing that true twin flames naturally find their way back to alignment when the timing is right.
If you ignore your path in the meantime, nothing will change.
We have to accept it… they will understand the journey when we understand it too… We just have different things to figure out…
It’s like two saplings growing side by side, their roots intertwined beneath the surface long before their branches touch the sky. There’s this moment when the sun hits just right, and you see your reflection in the other tree’s leaves - it truly clicks.
But deep down (deep deep down), I think we always sense that connection (the runner always knows), like how trees communicate with each other through the forest floor. It’s not just about recognizing each other; it’s about finally understanding why you’ve always felt slightly different from the rest of the grove.
My DM was well aware that we are twin flames before they even started to run. I actually didn’t listen at the time because I didn’t know the term but now I am the one looking into it and they are trying their best to ignore it.
I remember… yeah, that day, when I just… stopped. Stopped looking out there, you know? Turned inward instead. Not waiting anymore, no… finding peace. My peace. In all that mess. Funny thing is, that’s when… huh. That’s when they started to… I don’t know, wake up? Show signs of it, anyway. Weird how that works.
There was a moment when I was listening to our favorite song, and it hit me like a wave - maybe they were hearing it too, wherever they were. I don’t think there are these single moments though, maybe it’s more of a gradual process as they become awakened and understand more of the path, just like we did.
As the soft light of dawn filters through the leaves, I realize that what I once perceived as closed eyes might simply be a moment of quiet adjustment. In nature’s gentle rhythm, it’s often our subtle shifts that create a welcoming space for others to unfurl.
The runners resistance to spirituality might be exactly what you need to see to help you release your own attachments to specific beliefs or outcomes.
Im at this stage qondering the same…why its taking him long to realize these things
Wow well said needed this
I know im doing alot of work on my end however it feels like he has emotionally blocked menoff and tefusing to work on anything…it makes me so sad