I received some insight the other day about my life’s journey that I thought I’d share it with the group. They were thoughts that came “out of the blue”. Perhaps they were what some would consider to be a “psychic download”.
Thoughout our life’s journey, we are presented with many different challanges and choices, but we often don’t see how some of them affect the direction of our life, the lives of others and the experiences we undergo.
My story is one such instance.
Like many, when I first encountered my twin flame in this lifetime, I was already married and had a family. As such I was presented with a big and important decision that all of us in commited relationships face when encountering our twin flame for the first time.
Tell our significant other about our connection to our twin, or keep it hidden?
I will thus explore the result of each of these choices in my own journey. But first, let me set the stage:
When I first met my twin flame, the pull was intense. The desire to be next to them whenever the opportunity came, far too strong to ignore. I wanted to just be with them, and only them. Drop everything and run with them somewhere else. In our own little world.
During this time, my spouse was studing to start a new career, where they felt they had a much better chance of getting ahead with finances in order to help our family thrive. My regular job was barely enough to get us by.
The final deciding factor in starting this new career was a certification exam.
They were prepared and had spent ample amount of time studying. Their emotional state was also quite stable.
Here’s where the big choice I mentioned comes into play:
Choice #1: Keep the connection with my twin flame hidden and pursue it in secret.
If the connection between me and my twin had been kept a secret, my spouse would have passed their exam and started on their new career path.
However, the universe works in mysterious ways and external forces and circumstances would have ensured that they would, at one point, begin to work at my twin flame’s karmic soulmate’s workplace.
The resulting events and interactions there, would have ensured that the truth regarding my connection and the previous interactions with my twin flame, would have been revealed. This would have led to a strong emotional upheaval and no doubt, a large breakdown of trust in me and our relationship.
This is in fact something that an astrologist confirmed when they performed a reading for me.
Choice #2: Reveal the truth regarding the connection between me and my twin flame.
Opening up and revealing the truth requires a very strong embrace of vunerability and humility.
The result of me revealing the truth also created a strong emotional upheaval. But I don’t believe it was as strong as the one that would have occured in the situation in which I would have been dishonest and kept things hidden.
While smaller in intensity, it was still enough to affect my partner’s emotional state, resulting in them being unable to achive a passing grade on their certification exam.
As a result, they were unable to start on their new career path, and instead shifted their focus on continuing to care for and support our family.
In this scenario, the interactions at my twin flame’s karmic soulmate’s workplace did not occur, with the big breakdown of trust in our relationship being largely prevented. All of this because I consciously chose honesty and humility over lies and deceipt.
And thus I was able to rebuild a stronger foundation of trust and commitment to my partner and our relationship, quickly learning a soul lesson that I was meant to learn and ending a cycle far earlier then I was meant to. Albeit, at the expense of some financial gain.
Conclusion:
It’s clear that we can never avoid the consequences of our actions. The truth will always be revealed, as the universal law of justice comes into effect, either sooner or later. But by choosing a path of honesty and integrity, we can reduce the amount of pain and anguish that we inflict on others, and by extension, ourselvs.
Our life journey may seem scary and terrifing at times, but by aligning our actions with our own values, even when it seems difficult or impossible, we can unexpectingly change it positive ways.
