Um, I’m not really sure, but… does anyone else feel like their DM might actually hate them sometimes? I mean, I know we’re supposed to have this deep connection, but lately it just feels so negative and confusing. Maybe I’m just imagining things, but I can’t shake this feeling that he doesn’t share the same emotions I do… or am I totally misreading everything?
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I’ve had those moments too, where it feels like my DM is on a completely different wavelength. Those feelings often come up when I’m going through a growth phase or healing something within myself - it’s like the connection amplifies whatever I need to work on.
The only real rule with twin flames is that there will be intense emotion.
Hate is an emotion. Doesn’t mean you’re not twin flames or anything has gone wrong.
This is a good thing to look out for. They are your mirror.
Maybe this feeling of negativity might actually be a reflection of your own inner turmoil.
Sometimes our DMs mirror our deepest insecurities, forcing us to confront parts of ourselves we’d rather ignore. These moments of doubt often precede major breakthroughs in the connection. Maybe embrace emotions instead of resisting them?
I’ve felt that disconnect too, taking a step back to focus on self-love and personal growth helped realign our connection and ease those doubts.
I’ve felt that disconnect too, and it’s really gut-wrenching.
I have been on the other side of this as the runner and the DM.
For a while I thought my DF hated me (that’s what caused the initial separation) but looking back I understand things better.
“The darkest nights produce the brightest stars.”
When we feel most disconnected from our twin flame, it’s actually pushing us towards greater self-awareness and growth. They’re probably feeling awful about the energy between you and this might be pushing both of you forward.
There is a fine line between love and hate even in normal relationships…
Your twin flame doesn’t hate you - they hate themselves, and you’re just the mirror reflecting it back but amplified. So try to send love instead of matching that negativity.
Your twin flame doesn’t hate you - they hate themselves, and you’re just the mirror reflecting it back.
I’ve been there, feeling that burning resentment from my twin that seemed directed at me, but it was really their own inner turmoil being projected outward. The key is to keep loving them unconditionally through it all, even when it feels impossible, because that’s how you both heal and grow together.