I hate everything about you… why do I love you?
I woke up feeling sick to my stomach and knew he’d be there on that stupid app I checked. There he was, rage building inside me. Why does this keep happening? Why do I always know? Why can’t I just forget him and move on?
I was never this person that was hung up on a guy, I never really even cared about dating. Today is hard and I feel like I hate my twin flame is that even possible? Can I hate them or does that mean this was a false twin flame?
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Don’t worry, you are not alone here. There is a fine line between love and hate, as they say, and they are just two sides of the same very passionate coin.
This doesn’t mean they are not the real thing. That doesn’t mean they are, either. Even when the skies are dark, the sun still shines behind the clouds. Accept the turbulence as part of your growth, knowing that true love transcends fleeting feelings and ultimately leads to deeper understanding.
I’ve been exactly where you are, feeling that intense mix of love and hate.
It’s completely normal to have these conflicting emotions. This sometimes happens with normal dating, so with TFs, it will be even more intense.
They’re mirroring back parts of yourself you may not be ready to face yet.
These powerful feelings often surface because twin flames trigger our deepest wounds and insecurities, pushing us to face parts of ourselves we’ve tried to ignore.
Twin flames often evoke our most intense emotions because they’re catalysts for our deepest healing.
Like two trees with intertwined roots, we may clash and strain against each other, but our connection runs deeper than surface conflicts - it’s okay to feel frustrated, even hateful at times, while still loving at your core.
I’ve been there - feeling that intense love-hate vibe.
It’s like battling your own shadow sometimes, seeing the parts of yourself you’d rather ignore reflected at you. This is perfectly normal and, in some ways, a very good thing.
Sometimes, I thought I hated them, but it’s like trying to hate a part of yourself - impossible! Hate (or whatever it really is) burns out quickly. Love always comes back.
Even when I’m super mad, there’s this warm fuzzy feeling that just won’t quit. Sure, we can drive each other bonkers, but at the end of the day, that special twin flame love is always there!?
It happens for a reason. You are mirroring your own anger at still being attached to that outcome. It will keep happening between the two of you until you’re able to release that energy.
hey, i feel you. my tf and i are in a rough patch too. it’s like we’re on this emotional ride, and right now we’re at the part where everything feels upside down. some days i think about if they even remember i exist. it’s tough, but i try to keep in mind that this intensity is part of the journey. doesn’t make it suck any less though.
I understand you’re hurting, but I’m not sure focusing on a social media app is the best idea. In fact I know it isn’t.
The twin flame journey is hard. You already know this. It doesn’t follow a straight path. You probably know that already. It’s tempting to be angry and focus on them, but you might as well be angry at yourself.
Instead of obsessing over his online presence, I’d suggest turning inward and working on your healing. This is what you will keep hearing over and over again (but that is for good reason). This separation phase, though painful, is really an opportunity for both of you to evolve individually and then come back together when you are ready.
True. I experience the same things and this relationship reminds me of a seesaw.
When you are aware that you are on it, there is clarity that emerges over these polar mood swings. The seesaw keeps moving because this is life, but you already realize that these states are natural.
Pillow against the wall thud, thoughts of him swirling, frustration bubbling up inside. I can’t shake this feeling he’s under my skin, part of my being trying to peel him away, but he’s stuck there like glue, our connection a rope I can’t break no matter how I struggle longing and anger intertwined why can’t I let go why do I hold on what is this pull towards him it’s maddening it’s intoxicating it’s us forever bound
I think we have all been there at one time or another. Sometimes multiple times.
