I’ve read all the threads about telepathic sex and sexual energy, but are these specific signs that your twin flame is thinking of you sexually?
My DM is very sexual and sometimes I’m hit with these energies out of nowhere. They’re distracting, overpowering and beginning to get in the way of me entering the surrender stage properly.
I’ve felt those intense sexual vibes before, but I’m not entirely convinced it’s always from my twin flame. Sometimes, I wonder if it’s just my own desires projecting outward. Has anyone else experienced a sudden, unexplainable arousal and questioned its source? I’ve found that meditation helps me differentiate between my own energy and external influences.
I can’t deny the times when I’ve felt an overwhelming sexual energy with him but I’d like to know if that means he’s thinking about me sexually or if it’s something else.
There are a few threads around that talk about different aspects of this. Paging @Redpanda, who’s usually really good at suggesting the best reads.
Sexual energy between twin flames operates differently than conventional physical attraction. What you’re describing - those sudden, powerful waves of sexual energy - is not the same as a normal ‘crush’.
The energy feels markedly different from regular arousal - it often comes with specific sensations.
The timing is often meaningful.
You’re wise to question whether it’s your own energy or truly from your twin. Some ways to differentiate:
Your own sexual thoughts tend to build gradually, while twin flame energy often arrives suddenly (and unexpectedly)
Twin flame sexual energy usually has a distinctive “signature” you’ll learn to recognize
The energy typically feels more refined and spiritual than purely physical
If these experiences are interfering with surrender, try:
Acknowledging the energy (without attachment)
Remain grounded through physical activity
Setting clear energetic boundaries when needed
Using protection meditation if the energy becomes overwhelming
Remember that this energy serves a purpose in the twin flame journey - it’s part of the soul connection rather than just physical attraction. Working with it mindfully can support both your individual and shared spiritual growth.
This thread shows a… variation? Of your twin flame thinking about you sexualy:
Telepathic sex is an obvious sign of them “reaching out” but if your twin is with someone else (like a karmic for example) you might also want to read:
I’ve struggled with this exact issue, and it’s been a source of both confusion and growth.
When those waves of sexual energy hit, I often find myself questioning everything - my own desires, my twin flame connection, even my sanity at times.
I’ve spent countless nights lying awake, trying to decipher if what I’m feeling is truly coming from my twin or if it’s just my own longing manifesting itself. It’s a vulnerable place to be, constantly second-guessing your experiences.
You’re right. Grounding myself through physical activity, as you suggested, has been very helpful. There’s something about the tangible, earthly nature of exercise that helps me separate the spiritual energy from my own physical desires. Setting energetic boundaries has been a challenge for me, though. It feels almost sacrilegious to put up walls against this profound connection. But I’m learning that it’s not about blocking the energy entirely but rather about creating a healthy container for it.
From what I understand about these intense sexual surges you’re experiencing but the distinction between personal desire and twin-originated energy can be tricky to parse out.
Some signs that point to the energy coming from your twin:
It feels jarring and out of context with what you were doing
Physical symptoms like heat in your palms or solar plexus
A sense of their specific presence or personality within the energy
Vivid dreams or astral encounters following these episodes
Danielle at Pure Twin Flames also does specific readings sometimes to look at thir sexual thoughts for you. The deck is pretty NSFW though, so just be careful of you get a spread.
OMG, @Redpanda is coming in clutch with the receipts!
Those threads are like a goldmine for anyone dealing with TF sexual energy. The telepathic sex one? Mind. Blown. I love the write up guide on how to have that kind of sexual energy with your TF during separation. There was also a distance tantra thread:
When it’s truly from your twin, it often comes with a unique ‘signature’ that you’ll start to recognize over time - like a specific tingling sensation or a sudden warmth in your heart.
When it was just me getting horny, I’d know what this feels like. This is something different because you… just know that it’s not coming from you.
It’s a mix of both your own energy and your twin’s. Sometimes, I’ll be minding my own business, and BAM, suddenly, I’m all hot and bothered for no reason. It’s hard to tell if it’s them or just me, but when it feels extra intense and kinda comes outta nowhere, it’s usually my twin thinking sexy thoughts about me.
I don’t mind him doing it, I just wish he’d call me when it hapens.
When it’s my twin, the energy feels different - like it’s coming from outside me, and it’s usually accompanied by other signs like random thoughts of them or seeing their name everywhere.
The intensity of attraction is unlike anything I’ve felt before - it’s as if every cell in my body is drawn to them. It’s not just physical; it’s a soul-deep yearning that can be overwhelming. It’s almost all-consuming but it’s always clear that their thoughts of you are sexual in nature.
I’ve found myself wondering whether such a strong bond is healthy or if it’s a form of cosmic infatuation. Still, there’s something beautiful about feeling so deeply connected to another person, even if it comes with a few small challenges when it happens at weird moments.
I think when it happens, you just know. It’s maybe one of the few times the TF journey has an easy answer. If they’re thinking of having sex with you, it’s all your mind can see sometimes. If you’re really disciplined you can keep going about your day but it’s always there in the background. Super distracting.
When someone’s being creepy about you, you kind of just get that subtle feeling, right?
It’s sort of loosely like that but it’s very welcome and not at all subtle. So, in closing, it’s the exact opposite. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
I started journaling about these experiences, and it opened up new insights. When I feel that sudden sexual energy, I jot down what I’m doing, thinking, or feeling in that moment. Over time, patterns emerged that helped me understand whether it’s my twin’s influence or my own projections.
