Hello beautiful friends its my first day on this group. Thank you. Im in the separation phase atm. I am married with kids. Yet no love and respect in my marriage. In 2023, a year before even knowing my TF i began having clear dreams of this person coming into my life. Details of his appearance, his intense love for me, his career/field of studies. I believe i attracted him into my life because of my intense longing to be loved and respected. In the 5 month since we have known each other its has been so intense and so much learning. I know ive been the chaser. So much love to give yet was never receiving ut equally. A month ago we separated, he mentally or emotionally locked me off. I know it has more to do with his inner issues ot heal from. It has affected me alot. Night and day i think of him. Its exhausting. However im growing alot. Getting stronger. He came and spoke to me telepathically one early morning satying that he was going through healing and an awakening. I got upset thinking why is he reaching out to me in this way when he can just speak to me in 3d. But i guess this is the journey we agreed to. When we spoke I felt intense heart beats before we spoke or when something was about to be unpleasant between us. In separation i still feel a pain in my chest but i know its coming from him. Now i am able to separate it. He is younger than me. Yet matured in mamy ways. I never knew love could exist like this until i met him. So intense and respectful. I love u all. Just wanted to share with you where i am at before i head out.
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Your energy field is shared with your twin flame, which explains the heart sensations and telepathic moments.
Your soul orchestrated this entire experience, including the marriage situation, to help you grow. Rather than seeing it as being ‘locked off’, view this as sacred space for individual healing.
Physical separation doesn’t mean energetic separation - you’re always connected at the soul level. However, focusing too much on telepathic messages can actually create more distance by feeding the addictive push energy. The pain in your chest you’re attributing to him is actually activation of your own core energy. Learning to work with this energy directly, rather than projecting it outward, is key to finding balance.
Thank you. Somw days im better but other days it hurts so bad and i have no one to speak with. I think of him night and day all day. Sometimes i let go and surrender then other times a deep sadness comes thinking how could someone who said they loved u so much just go without saying anything. It really hurts.
It is a very painful and difficult experience that the majority of twin flame relationships go through at one point. But much of it is also because we’ve never experienced this type of connection before in our lifetime.
Just like how we first fell as a child and hurt ourselvs, we thought it was the most excruciating pain we’ve ever felt, so too is this experience.
Its only this painful because its new, something we’ve never experienced at this level or intensity before.
In time, however, the hurt will lessen, and the more times you experience this pain, the stronger and more resilient you become. Eventually, it will no longer affect you as deeply as it has now.
So give it time. Be kind, pacient and caring with yourself during this transition time.
Thank you kindly. Yes it hurts alot. The sadness comes and goes. Last night i did some heart chakra healing and it was very powerful…tried to release some of this unhealthy attachment issues i have. I knew something happened. I feel a sense of calm which i wish could saty with me.
Being able to separate his pain from yours shows remarkable progress in understanding your shared energy. These psychic experiences typically increase during separation as your soul finds ways to bridge the physical distance.
This isn’t about avoiding direct communication - it’s about discovering the full spectrum of ways your shared energy can connect and communicate.
Thank u …i think i need the supportive words at the moment. I got a reading and was told that hes still not coming to terms with his emotions and has an emotional block. This is is making me even more sad as i feel ive been doing so much work on my end while he is d same way he left. Not facing his emotions. Every day i wish to let go .
I’ve experienced similar telepathic moments with my DM, especially during separation. While it can be comforting… I learned not to rely just on this.
Welcome to the forum 
Thank u…u were very helpful
Hey there, thanks for sharing your experience. Sending you strength as you navigate this path and heal.
2 days ago i believe for the first time i found some inner strength to let go of the tight grip i was having and d need for so much control over the situation. I hope it stays with me. We really shouldn’t allow others to have this control over our mind and emotions as its quite unhealthy.
Learning to set healthy boundaries around telepathic communication allowed me to find more balance and peace.
He came last night in dream to ask how im doing and something about if im speaking to others …more like an insecure feeling i got from him. I dont depend on these communication but somehow he’s showing up on and off. In d dream i was list listening and not reactive.