So my TF drunk dialed me saying he’s not over me, but now he’s gone radio silent. I’m seeing his name everywhere and even dreamed about him the night before. It’s driving me crazy trying to figure out if he meant what he said or if it was just the alcohol talking. I want to reach out so badly, but I’m scared of pushing him away even more. Has anyone else been through something similar? How did you handle it?
I worked so hard not to let his actions frustrate me anymore but then he goes and pulls this.
This pattern is actually quite common with twin flames (I know that doesn’t make it any less frustrating or painful).
One twin opens up emotionally (often aided by lowered inhibitions) and then retreats due to feeling vulnerable. The fact you’re seeing signs and had that dream right before suggests an energetic connection is being activated between you two.
His drunk confession wasn’t random - alcohol simply lowered the walls he usually maintains. You might be interested in this thread too if you want to dig deeper into that side.
However, now his protective mechanisms have kicked back in, leading to this silence. Twin flames often trigger deep fears of vulnerability in each other.
I’ve been there. It’s like they’re two different people - drunk and sober! When they’re tipsy, it’s like the floodgates of emotion open up, and everything comes pouring out! But then, boom! Sobriety hits, and they’re back to being all closed off again!
My twin would do the exact same thing - open up when drunk, then retreat when sober! But here’s the thing - those drunken moments are like little windows into their soul! It’s when their true feelings shine through!
Don’t push them about it, though! Give them space to process those vulnerable moments! They might feel a bit embarrassed or exposed. Just know that those drunk confessions are probably the most honest version of them you’ll see for a while!
Sending you loads of love and light on your journey! Remember, every little step forward is progress, even if it feels like two steps back sometimes!
I’ve been through something similar with my twin flame, and it taught me a lot about faith and patience.
When my twin opened up to me during a vulnerable moment and then retreated, I felt lost and confused. But I turned to prayer and meditation for guidance. Through this spiritual practice, I received a profound message - that love requires trust in divine timing. Just as you’re seeing signs and had that dream, I started noticing synchronicities everywhere. It was spirit reassuring me that our connection was real, even when things seemed uncertain.
You know, I had this intense moment where I actually opened up to my twin flame about how I was feeling. No filters, no games, just raw honesty. It was terrifying but also strangely liberating. Like, for once, I wasn’t trying to play it cool or hide behind jokes. Just me, vulnerable and real. It makes you think how much easier this whole journey could be if we all just cut the crap and spoke our truth more often, you know?
