Ah, that would be very long to explain ahahah (I do plan on writing a book some day).
The 9 years together had challenges, indeed, but that was still very fulfilling. Our couple was somewhat an example of what people around us were aiming to find - a power couple noone would’ve thought would split like we did (suddenly). It was her inner fight that got the best of her, and she lost her way in it, and I lost mine alongside her without realizing it, and things got complicated and she panicked and ran away. What I saw from that day on was a version of my wife I never saw before, and I knew she was only lost but that the fight for our marriage was going to be very long and difficult (it’s like I understood the necessity of “separation” before I even knew about twin flames…). Her coming back to me always felt like a certainty (I’m guessing my soul was telling me about our unbreakable connection).
You can catch some of my story in my previous posts, such as in the following threads : How is your faith doing?, Separation within the marriage or Can You Marry Your Twin Flame?
I’ll out camping all week, but feel free to ask questions and I’ll reply when I’m back. 